Star Trek urgently needs ND character to mentor Data
So, my man (autistic) is into science fiction, me (ADHD) not so much, but anyway today my man decided he was going to watch Star Trek and I happen to be around (usually I’m not) and watch with him.
It was that episode when the ship goes to be desinfected (I don’t remember the name of the episode) and Data mentions he created a sub-routine (wtv that is) for small talk and decides to listen to every conversation happening in that room and at some point he and the other guy (already forgot the name) start to talk about everything possible and I think it was Troi and Riker ask how can someone talk about nothing for so long. I’m like wdym about nothing? Small talk is about nothing!! Someone need to rewrite that series and give a proper mentor to that computer ASAP.
I can imagine a conversation going something like this:
Data: I’m trying to understand humans
ND character I just made up: good luck on that bruh tell me later how did it go. I have been trying to do that for insert character age here years and no success…
Data: wait… but you are human, how can you not understand humans?
ND Char: oh boy this is going to be a long talk, but long story short what you are trying to understand is neurotypical humans, neurodivergent humans like me, are a totally different story, everyday I wake up and wonder if I’m the same species as Neurotypicals… Anyway do you like to read? Here is a list of books about this subject…
Data after reading them all: holy shit, understanding humans was already complicated when I thought there was only one type of humans and now… this… I’m never going to understand humans!
ND Char: I just gave up
Data: but then how are you supposed to know what to say and when and how and…?
ND Char: welcome to the ND side of humanity bro! Why do you think so many of us are into coding? It’s just ones and zeros, not gesticulates to neurotypical humans being neurotypical all that mess…. Are you sure you don’t want to go back to be just and android? Because I think you are about to short circuit …
Data is just saying he programmed himself with a new feature, a new set of functions that grant him a new capability: 'small talk.'
... The entire point of Troi and Riker making the small talk joke is that Data missed the point of small talk.
Also... Data is the ND person/analog, Data is playing the part of the high functioning autistic person, of the 'eccentric genius' who has great knowledge of complex academic subjects, but has fundamentally difficulty with what NTs consider basic social skills.
His approach is naive and overly literal: Oh, small talk must just be a category or style of human interactions, I'll just quickly make a giant study with available information and pop out a decent facsimile or emulation of 'small talk'.
... But results in Data coming across as a try-hard, a poser, a cariacature.
Data's approach is fundamentally flawed: He missed the actual core of interpersonal social and emotional dynamics, concepts like equivalent reciprocity, how to assess a person's body language and tone, how to gauge a person's level of interest, how situational context works, how to recover from and apologize for an unintentional insult, how to know when you are being percieved as being annoying or having overstayed your welcome...
...most importantly, Data doesn't have emotions, he doesn't have a gut feeling, he himself does not possess all these non formally logical thought influencing fuzzy-logic processes that NTs/most humans have at such a fundamental level that they often are not even conscious of how they work.
For that reason, he will often come across as odd or phony or inapprooriate to many humans... he'd have to have all of that, integrate it with the rest of his personality/systems, and then 'small talk' would basically just emerge without much effort.
To use autistic/ND terminology, Data just tried to hastily construct another kind of mask or persona for a different kind of social ettiquette, and it did not go well.
I say this all as an autistic person who has often found more in common with 'android' type characters in fiction than other characters, and who has often been called a vulcan, robot, computer or android, sometimes as a compliment, sometimes as an insult.
Anyway... if you do ever watch more TNG, there are a fair number of plots that revolve around Data longing to experience emotions, and then actually having emotions via basically being upgraded with another hardware component ... literally, an 'emotion chip', which is basically a far more complex, advanced, experimental and buggy piece of hardware ... initially it basically makes Data manic/depressive bipolar, totally overwhelming him, and it takes him quite a lot of time and effort to learn how to control his emotions...
Kind of like how an autistic person acts after having been far too stressed for too long and then suffers a 'burn-out'.
Giving a bot an emotion chip and no mood stabilizers? That’s going to go well (not)! How many people did I killed while having his manic episodes?
And also apparently at some point he has a daughter and tries to raise her according to what he read on books about parenting…. Written by Neurotypicals… for Neurotypicals… no wonder she short circuited 🤦🏻♀️
Oh well I guess it must have been what was available at the time, I was born in 1990 so I don’t remember much of what life was like in the 90s 🤷🏻♀️
... How would chemical mood stabilizers function ... in a computer brain?
Would you give lithium or abilify or haldol... to ChatGPT? To a boston dynamics robot?
The entire point is that Data... is an android, he is a machine, he is mechanical and robotic components made to outwardly resemble a human, but he doesn't have a human brain or human metabolic pathways/processes.
His... his 'daughter' is also an android, and part of the point of that plot line is to illustrate how... at the time, and still today, it is difficult to access useful parenting guides and advice or neurodivergent children, and how neurodivergent parents can also need their own approach to parenting in general.
In the case of Data and Lal, they are... basically wholly unique in the entire Star Trek universe... so there are no manuals or guides that apply to them.
Again, this mirrors, with some hyperbole, how difficult it is for ND parents and children to find actually effective, useful and not harmful advice, as they are a very small proportion of wider society and are widely misunderstood.
Im on the ADHD side of the spectrum and 90% of time I also don’t understand the communication of my own species 🤷🏻♀️ when I was diagnosed I stopped trying because… burnout
But coming back to the subject why the hell is data always asking “how did I do?” Why is he obcessed with what everyone thinks of him? That’s not very ND of him, because NDs usually don’t give a shit 😹
ND... Neurodiversity... is an umbrella term, similar to how LGBTIQA+ or 'queer' are umbrella terms.
ADHD, Autism, Schizophrenia, Down Syndrome, Dyslexia, Dyscalcula, Tourette Syndrome, OCD, Manic/Depressive Bipolar, etc... these are all distinct disorders/conditions that make a person's mind operate significantly differently from a person without any of them.
You can of course have multiple conditions at the same time, and the term neurodiversity isn't a formally recognized medical term with a settled definition, different institutions and doctors will or will not include different conditions/disorders in their idea of what the neurodiversity umbrella captures under it.
But... the different conditions/disorders that are considered neurodiverse... they are all distinct, with distinct behavior patterns.
I don't think ADHD is ... part of 'the spectrum', that term is usually used in the context of the severity of Autism/Apsbergers (they've since been merged together into ASD, Autism Spectrum Disorder) symptoms.
I also don't know that 'burnout' is associated with ADHD. Its... not currently even widely recognized by doctors as a valid term to use in the context of Autism, though some have started using it and there is a push for wider acceptance amongst professionals... either way, its a bit different than the purely colloquial usage of 'burned out', it specifically relates to being overwhelmed by the kinds of things Autists struggle more with due to being Autistic.
Basically, you have to score or be assessed as exhibiting a significant number of behavioral characterists, be high enough on 'the spectrum' to get formally diagnosed as having ASD such that it seriously impacts your life, makes you significantly different than non Autistic people... because basically everyone will probably exhibit mild Autistic behaviors at certain points of your life... but if they are persistent, and more severe, more impactful, you are Autistic.
To go back to the LGBTQ comparison... if you just said 'I am queer', all that really indicates is that you're either not cisgender, or not straight, or not sexual at all, that you are somehow different from 'the norm'.
... But a trans lesbian is significantly different from a cis gay man, or an intersex pansexual, or an agender aromantic/asexual... just as an ADHD person is significantly different from an autistic person or someone with down syndrome.
Finally, why is Data always asking 'how did I do?'
Again, as an autist myself, especially as a kid, especially in the realm of social interactions... its quite common to just ask for feedback, as if you were asking a teacher to grade a math quiz or a paper.
You want to learn, you want to improve this skill, you want to make sure you understood the context of a situation and interaction correctly, to make sure you did not incorrectly assume someone's intended meaning, or misread their emotional state.
Data constantly asking for feedback on social interactions is again, another pretty common thing for higher functioning autistic people to do.
Maybe not giving a shit is more common with your flavor of neurodiversity, ADHD, or maybe that is just your own personality trait independent of a condition/disorder...
...I don't know, I don't know you and I don't know as much about ADHD, but hopefully by me bringing this up significant difference between different types of neurodiversity, you can see that you can easily misunderstand and even offend people by just lumping all neurodiversity into an essentially homogenous blob of sameness with minor variations...
When in reality its more like Neopolitan ice cream, or every distinct kind of skittle or taffy flavor or something.
TNG is definitely a product of it's time (late 80s to early 90s). In the late 80s, "Autistic" mostly meant severe (and likely non-verbal), and ADHD was still ADD, and was only for the most hyperactive types. Non-attentive ADHD didn't really exist. "Aspergers" had only recently been a thing, and was very rare.
TNG is still a fantastic show, that challenges a lot of society (as it was meant to do), but in the modern day, it can leave a bit to be desired at times. Take in in the spirit of it's day.
Data is the ND character. Star Trek, and sci-fi and fantasy in general, use characters that are visibly others, to represent diverse human experiences. Check out season 1 episode 16 of the Original Series, the Galileo Seven, in which Spock is in command of an away mission that crashes on a planet's surface, and his Vulcan logic is tested, dealing with the emotions of his crew. To me, it was clearly a portrayal of neurodivergence.
Spock is literally neurodivergent. His genes are hybrid, human and Vulcan, and so, therefore, is his brain. Data and his positronic brain fill that same role in the Next Generation.
Sooner or later you'll realize that the ND character in question would've been Geordi LaForge -- or worse, Reginald Barclay -- and it would not have gone well.
Being on the spectrum, I have to say, I weirdly relate to Boimler in Lower Decks, especially early seasons. It’s something about his awkwardness combined with his dealing with his ambition that spoke to me when I got rejected from my dream school a year or so back.
It’s almost like Data is the person you dream of being in some ways and Boimler is the person you actually are in a few aspects.
Boimler gets associated with the ND characters in the show too, like Data and Spock. The crew of the Carlsbad expected him to be a hovering cube. I think it's definitely intentional