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Sigh. You know how there are some people whose company somehow makes you feel more alone? I feel like that's this person I hung out with this evening... I basically felt like I was her uber driver. I have never liked the fact that she's 50% of the time on the phone when hanging out with me, in the past it was because I was helping her out with stuff but now I'm kinda done. The last straw was when we were supposed to have fish and chips after the sunset and she said she'd shout me, but then later on when I asked her where she'd like to go she said actually she has cramps and she doesn't want to eat. I think I'm really ready to let this one fade away (which is sad given I don't have many other friends but oh well)
Just enjoying my own f&c at home now, gonna rewatch last week's The Pitt and then enjoy this week's.
That’s really rude if they spent that much time on the phone when they’re hanging out with you.
Drop them and don’t look back.
Yeah, you can just let some friendships go.
she’s 50% of the time on the phone when hanging out with me
I am 100% with you there.
50%? The body language of that just stinks on ice. Time to let go I think too.
I don't know if it's also a young person thing (one of my very few friends more than 2 yrs younger than me) but I will say I always make it a point not to be on my phone when I've specifically arranged to be with others - it really saddens me when others don't reciprocate. Maybe it's how others feel comfortable around their friends but it doesn't work for me.
Literally using you. That's not a friend.