Women, don't let this dude fool you into thinking grilling and fishing are gendered activities. Become the bane of all creatures subaquaceaous you were always meant to be.
I was always so intimidated by smoking over grilling but once I started smoking meat the hardest part for me was not drinking a 6 pack and falling asleep on the couch while I wait for my ribs to cook. Now I got into cooking more advanced things on the grill it is MUCH more difficult for me.