It's hard to tell anymore if the internet truly offers nothing of value to me or if I'm just dead inside.
It's hard to tell anymore if the internet truly offers nothing of value to me or if I'm just dead inside.
Could be both.
Likely both
The internet itself offers immense value across nearly all facets of life. The three websites that everyone uses do not.
There’s definitely value here, but sometimes it’s hard to justify because of the negatives that come with it.
I’m not sure if it’s always been like this (it probably has), or if I’ve just become more aware of it, but holy shit, people are mean and cynical. It really poisons my mind to spend time around these kinds of attitudes, and I can only imagine how contagious it must be especially for younger users, spreading this 'mind virus' to more and more people. I can’t imagine people talking to each other in real life the way they often do in places like this.
What I find even more toxic than direct attacks on other users, though, is the constant ambient cynicism. There are certain topics where I can guarantee that at least 50% of the comments are snide remarks dunking on AI, Twitter, Tesla, Musk, etc. These comments add zero value to the discussion. They’re written solely to signal alliance to like-minded people and fish for upvotes.
I just want a place where I can hang out with civilized adults and have meaningful discussions about substantive topics, instead of being surrounded by angry, hateful, cynical kids who seem more interested in pointing out the flaws in everything and tearing things down rather than discussing solutions.
Wow, really interesting take! Made me realize...
Wow. I'm the baddie.
I've done my fair share of admit "AI bad, Twitter bad" and felt that shift towards cynicism, I admit -- but 'til now I couldn't see my own hand in the subject. I'd worked hard over the years to avoid the more overt frustrator communities like r/facepalm, but as much as I'd like to presume... I'm clearly not doing so much better after all.
That ambient cynicism... I still perpetuated it, I still wrote those kneejerk comments, I still went on the preordained in-group spiel of valuelessnesses.
It's so easy to insult the things you mentioned, to partake in the "I Want to be Agreeable and Get Points" mindset and dunk. But it's precluding our ability to experience the things you mentioned in para #4. I want more of para #4 in my life... I'll need to think things differently.
Idk. Thanks for the meaningful substance. :p
I'm honored that someone even bothers to read my walls of text, but to hear they got something out of it too means a lot. Thanks for sharing.
My two main issues with comments like that are the lack of added value to the discussion as I stated above, but also that the claims on those messages are quite often absolute and thus very likely to be wrong. Maybe it's just my autism and tendency to take claims literally, but I really take issue with absolute statements. To say something like 'All Cops Are Bad' means (to me atleast) literally every single one of them without an exception. That simply isn't true. All it takes is one good cop to nullify the statement. What they meant to say is 'there are a huge number of bad cops' or just 'boo cops' but it's not what they're actually saying and that's not as catchy either.
To me this leaves two options; either refrain from posting at all, or explain yourself and introduce nuance. This challenges yourself and what often happens to me atleast is that I'm half way writing a message when I realize I have no idea what I'm talking about and I then just eraise it all and move on. It's kind of like the difference of thinking you know something and having to teach it to someone else and only then realizing you don't know how.
I think it's probably mostly that first thing. There's only two-three websites I visit on the daily anymore. The rest isn't worth it.
The rest isn’t worth it.
I don't think that's really true. I just think we aren't especially exposed to what's out there anymore. Or at least, it's hard to find legit stuff and not AI generated SEO blogspam.
I'll be the judge of that. What are your data points?
1.) I could give two shits about what the internet thinks on any given subject.
2.) I am not movitivated to use the internet for fun things like gaming, anymore.
3.) I want to crawl into a hole and fall asleep forever listening only to the humming of a sweet old lady.
4.) I look into my own eyes and see nothing.
5.) ... I dunno... I check the fridge for cheese more often then I check my own text messages.
6.) I took up smoking again and I don't even feel bad about the possible slow torturous death of lung cancer that awaits me.
7.) If I hear a child I am instantly annoyed(please don't hate me I don't have any kids of my own)
8.)I cannot write any
A rollercoaster. It was dropping until the cheese thing, which I think is just normal, unspoken behavior. Sounds to me like a bout of depression, or at least what I think is depression. I 100% get the same lethargy to life, and it tends to come in waves.
If you haven't, I'd look at having a chat with a professional. I'm not a good role model for this, but I have pushed through the lulls more times than I care to admit, and it gets tougher every year. The negative thoughts set in and create this negative feedback loop that makes functioning difficult, and digs a hole that's hard to climb out of.
Anecdotally, if this is new to you, it doesn't make for a happy life. I'm working to get help, but there are roadblocks. I would encourage you to try the same. If it doesn't help, then you can cross that bridge later. If it does, then you'll be in a much better place and the light will shine again.
...or the Internet really is just shitty.
Idk 7 is pretty normal
I don’t want to fuck up your depression status or anything like that, but being this honest with yourself sounds sort of cool.. in a way.. you know?
It sounds like a beginning of something or.. a wave.
Uninstall X, install newpipe
I'mma go with number two for a sure bet, could be number one too, but number two for sure
You've got a real way with words. I really like number 3.
So what do you do for fun if not internet or gaming?? Read books? Lol (jk I like books, but they're a more subtle fun)
The Internet is not supposed to be a source of happiness, that's a sell by some platforms you should never buy into. The Internet is a source of information, and information will not make you happy.
Gaming, social media, or most other online interaction, is ultimately masturbation. It feels good for the moment, but it doesn't last; you have nothing to look back on but Steam achievements or vacant profiles on a dead platform at the end.
If you're suffering from depression, you likely can't work yourself out of it through your own actions alone. Seek support. Things will not improve otherwise.
Whenever I look at archives of memes or random screenshots from my old computers I remember how great the internet was. It's filled with politics and advertising now.
Define "the internet" though...
If you're expecting "the internet" to fill your cup with joy then sure, that's probably not going to work out.
That said, there's plenty of good bits that make life a lot easier.
I generally feel pretty dead inside most days, but I did find some value in this video today. The Internet is usually pretty good for finding humorous stuff. Hopefully you at least get a chuckle from it!
Maybe we were all dead inside to begin with ... and then we created an internet that offered nothing of value in return.
For half a moment, that shared nothingness created something new, but then they came and chopped it off into small, blend, mouth sized pieces that never make you full.
You're just dead inside. Because of the Internet.
same
Yeah really the internet is annoying nowadays The young lads are quarrelling on stupid things The good old internet where everyone tries something new is all over. All are getting drowsy with you. But.. But... Internet is really personified nowdays. I won't probably see what you see on the internet. You might be bored of the current internet Check out !internetisbeautiful@feddit.de and other subs Find out how you can change your internet Connect with more friends. Find out how they make out their internet
Meanwhile look back how beautiful the offline world is
We still have the fediverse.