what's the easiest way to see if I can afford to move out?
I can easily find things like rent, internet, insurance prices, but how do I find things like grocery prices? I honestly don't even know what an average grocery list might look like, are there resources to help with this? my gf and I are looking into moving out, and assuming a monthly income of ~4400 USD and rent being 500 USD, I think we should be okay, but I need to be 100% that we won't be barely scraping by or anything. thank you everyone
Weird pitch, would you guys be able to cook your own meals or eat out for a week?
As in, don't use anything you didn't buy yourself for a week just to get an idea. Obviously that is not going to help you save up for your place, but the research might be worth it.
Also if you still live at home use this time to consider what you use to cook (pots, pans, utensils, etc)
I had no idea what food costs were until I moved out, I learned the hard way that I had to learn to cook or my budget would be forever broken, but grocery costs and budgeting are a whole other skill so it isn't automatic that shopping and cooking will be cheaper if you don't shop carefully.
Good luck, the very fact that you are thinking about this ahead of time is a good sign!
Oh yeah, it is way easier to spend than to earn! Cooking was a challenge for me, but after a handful of somewhat embarrassing failures my partner and I each have a decent list of things we can cook. We also have random "fend for yourself" nights where we eat leftovers, sandwiches, or whatever we can find. It definitely helps when you need to cut out some stress. Granted those are rarely healthy meals. I always keep at least one horrible (health wise) frozen item around just in case!
I'd suggest one of the meal prep delivery companies, if they are in your area. You'll get a fixed price, food delivered and they are like diy cooking lessons. Recipes get a bit samey over time but you'll find a few favourites to buy yourself when you stop.
This is a really great idea, especially if you need to learn to cook a bit. These meal kits are very easy to follow and I still use some of the recipes I learned even though I haven't used the service for a couple of years.
You're definitely doing the right thing by asking these questions first!
If you're not comfortable cooking by yourselves yet, I'd suggest focusing on that before moving out. The alternative is to eat out a lot, which is bad for your body and wallet. Once you do cook regularly, you'll have a good sense of how much groceries cost for you.
100% thats the plan. I've been getting tired of just sandwiches for lunch at work daily, so I was gonna start meal prepping stuff in the freezer, but buying everything myself so I can get an idea of the cost
Awesome! I've definitely been there before haha, there's only so much pizzaz you can add to a sandwich :)
FWIW, my main concern with cooking was time. Meal prep is good, but I personally prefer more variety. I've found that this book has a great approach - you do one meal prep cook, and get 3 different meals that use the same core ingredients. During the weekday, since all your proteins and vegetables are prepped, it typically just needs to be thrown together and put into the oven. 10 minutes max of human time, and maybe 20 minutes in the oven.
She has a few free recipes that follow the same format so you can try a cycle of meals before buying the book.
If you're still honing your cooking skills, there are a ton of helpful youtube channels to learn from. J Kenji Lopez Alt is great, but some other good ones are Chef John/Food Wishes, Ethan Chlebowski/Cook Well, Brian Lagerstrom, Adam Ragusea, Matty Matheson, Pailin's Kitchen, Internet Shaquille, Rick Martinez, and many more.