Sadly, I think it's Musk doing the commanding. Knowing as much as I do about Musk's philosophy, that's not a good thing. If Trump wasn't fascist enough, Musk certainly isn't going to help.
I have no doubt they are empowering each other in a sick feedback loop.
I had a friend that was always into guns but was normal about it. Then he started hanging out with this other gun guy. Within a couple years they were both psycho gun nuts. He started sleeping with a loaded the gun under his pillow. Even though he had a five year old son. To quote "He isn't strong enough to cycle the slide so it's ok ..."
Sleeping with a loaded gun under the pillow. If somebody wants to kill you, and is in your bedroom while you're sleeping, then you're going to wake up to a bullet going through your brain, before you go back to sleep permanently. A gun under the pillow doesn't even make sense in the gun nuts paranoid delusions.