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Caution! Cryptocurrency scam live in KDE Discover
  • Yes this is how I found out about it, by searching if there was a known Exodus scam with Snap. I can't believe this has happened more than once, I don't know how Snap works but that seems like a mistake you make once and then never again.

  • Caution! Cryptocurrency scam live in KDE Discover
  • I reported the SNAP to Canonical. I understand that this is not directly KDE Discover's fault, but I wonder if there's still a possible solution (like a bigger warning for SNAP packages or something).

  • Caution! Cryptocurrency scam live in KDE Discover
  • My dad just got scammed a lot of money by downloading this fake Exodus cryptocurrency wallet from the Discover app. I really can't blame him too much, it looks legit and usually you don't think of getting scammed in the official Discover app.

  • What do I do?
  • You're right that this might look like BPD, but that's also a huge conclusion to draw from only a couple sentences. It's extremely rare to diagnose BPD before age 18 because it has too much overlap with just... the nature of moody teens and puberty.

    OP, it might be useful to research BPD but moreso than anything, just give her time and make sure she knows you're there if she needs you. Give her reassurance and try asking her about why she thinks people hate her, and maybe try working through it with her (try bringing logic into it, but try to get her to come up with the logic rather than telling her directly).

  • [Bass] Ideas for playing in public without amplification?

    Hi /c/guitars,

    I'm a bassist (there's not really a good community for bassists on Lemmy yet), and something I've been wanting to do for a while now is do an acoustic-y jam at a public park with friends.

    The problem is, most cities draw the line at amplification. It's a bit annoying because an unamplified drum set can be crazy loud and that's okay, but a slightly amplified bass will get you in trouble.

    The way I think of it, I have 3 options

    (1) Unamplified acoustic bass. The problem is, these are just not that loud. (2) Secretly amplified acoustic bass? Hear me out. I was thinking if I got a small battery powered amp, and hid it in a backpack, and only had it slightly on, it might not get noticed. I would only need a slight boost. (3) Get a really cheap double bass? I've always wanted a double bass, but those things are crazy expensive. There are technically ones for like $1k or under, but everyone says to stay away because they are pieces of crap. Maybe that's what I'm looking for though? I don't think I'd want to bring a nice $6000 upright bass to a public park...

    Anyway, just curious what thoughts anyone has, especially anyone who has done this before in a big city.

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    And then the fire nation attacked
  • Well, there is partial truth to this. Diagnosing especially preteens with mental health conditions almost always needs an asterisk, their brains are still heavily developing.

    Remember that we know of no reliable genetic / physiological markers for ADHD, so when doctors diagnose it, they're really just saying that the amount of symptoms seems to be severe enough. Some kids are just naturally more energetic, intelligent, etc. and may appear like they have ADHD, but when they develop into adults that might not actually be the case.

    If anything, it's more like 1/3 of kids were misdiagnosed as having ADHD, so they "grew" out of it because they didn't really have it. It's a lot less likely for an adult to be misdiagnosed because their brains aren't changing.

  • It took me about 2 years of reading to find a book I *really* liked
  • I'm reading Warbreaker right now because someone said I should read it before Stormlight Archive, but I'm very excited to start that series soon.

    I've heard great things about Wheel of Time, although one of my friends said it can be a bit harder to get into.

  • It took me about 2 years of reading to find a book I *really* liked
  • I can totally imagine that book being really boring to some people. I almost didn't include the actual book series in this post but I thought people would be curious.

    I think for people who are big readers, reading books that they only kinda enjoy isn't a big deal for them. They might even just appreciate that it's different.

    But for folks who don't read much and are trying to get into it, chugging through a book they only partially like might ruin their entire vision of what reading should be.

  • It took me about 2 years of reading to find a book I *really* liked

    Hi all,

    I have the pretty classic backstory of playing lots of video games when I was young, plus being forced to read books I didn't want to read in school making me dislike reading.

    Until about 2 years ago, I hadn't read a book for pleasure in quite a few years, probably before high school. And even before then, I didn't read that much.

    I'm making this post because... when I first got back into reading (2 years ago), I don't think I really understood how fun reading could be. I viewed it as a healthy hobby (which it is of course), and don't get me wrong I did enjoy reading, but it always felt a bit like something I was doing for health reasons instead of really enjoying it. Sorta like a chore that I was forcing myself to do.

    If you're in my position... Just keep trying different authors, different genres, different series. I think I accepted reading as being only a slightly enjoyable thing because that's just what I thought it was.

    6 months ago I finally read a book series my brother had been recommending for a while, and it completely changed my relationship with reading. I enjoyed this so much more than I thought I could. I didn't have to convince myself to read anymore, it was the main thing I wanted to do. I think in one day I read about 250 pages. I was almost too obsessed with it, I nearly cancelled plans with friends because I wanted to read haha.

    I'm not trying to advertise this specific book series or anything, but if you're curious it's Mistborn by Brandon Sanderson.

    TL;DR - if you're newer to reading and feel like it's a chore, don't give up hope, keep trying new authors or genres and you might find something you really enjoy. there's almost certainly something out there that's made just for you, and you might have to sift through a couple "okay" books until you find it.

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    What are your Favorite ADHD related Life Hacks?
  • If you feel like you're struggling to accomplish a task, take a moment to think about your stimulation level. Are you understimulated or overstimulated? Sometimes just acknowledging it is enough, everyone has their own techniques.

    For example, if I'm trying to work and I'm understimulated, I might throw on some metal music or something like that. If I'm overstimulated, probably means I should sit in a dark room for 5 or 10 minutes until I feel better before trying to do anything.

  • What are your Favorite ADHD related Life Hacks?
  • If you're trying to do thing A but your brain can't stop thinking about thing B, take out a notebook and write down all your current thoughts on thing B. Trust yourself that when you get back to it, you will be right where you left off. Then do thing A.

    For example, trying to work on a paper but you can't stop thinking about the season finale of your favorite show you just watched.

    Doesn't always work but helps a lot.

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  • First of all, I think most people think about those things at least occasionally, it's totally normal and part of the curious nature of humans and many other mammals.

    You mention "I can't ever just stop thinking and relax. My brain is so fucked." which indicates that this is a real problem affecting your mental health. I think you could benefit from going to therapy specifically about anxiety, or at least start with implementing some of the basic principles.

    Worrying about things you can't control, or can't influence, while completely normal, can be quite destructive. Try to reframe these in your head. Don't be anxious because you might never know the answer, let yourself be freed by the fact that you don't have to do anything about it. All those things you mentioned are really awe inspiring. Things to wonder and imagine. That could be a positive thing in your life, part of the great mysteries of humanity, not something to be upset about.

    Focus on the things in your life that you can control. You can study, practice music, write stories, etc. So many many things you can control, so don't be upset about what you can't. Be happy with what you can.

    Maybe you could directly transform your anxiety into creativity here. If you're so consumed by these things, write a short sci-fi story about if the world was a simulation, etc. There's a reason why people with anxiety or ADHD tend to be creative. Just an idea.

  • I actually like taking public transit in Philly...

    I am the only one in my friend group who actually likes taking SEPTA, and it's really hard to explain why.

    Objectively, I've had bad experiences on SEPTA. Every now and then, a train car smells awful. There's druggies everywhere. Some mentally ill folk will start yelling, etc. Train stations smell like piss and cigarette smoke. Objectively, I understand why a lot of people are scared of, hesitant of, or dislike SEPTA.

    But for some reason... I just enjoy it. I'm fascinated by it. It brings people from all walks of life together. It gives you a sense of reality and community. It's got personality... It's got Philadelphia personality. It summarizes the city, in a way.

    I grew up in a wealthier suburb where I very rarely encountered homelessness, severe mental illness, etc. I was sheltered. Being in Philadelphia and especially being on SEPTA, feels so much more authentic. Like I'm experiencing real life.

    I'm sure it helps that I'm male too.

    Does anyone else feel the same?

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    Tofu scramble rule
  • This has been discussed thousands of times online so I don't feel the need to type out a very long answer.

    The pure existence of modern day chickens is animal abuse. The closest known relative to the modern day chicken lays about 10-15 or so eggs a year. Modern day chickens lay eggs daily. It is extremely hard on their body, they have been selectively bred to provide output with no care for their wellbeing.

    That being said, if a vegan were to rescue a chicken or something, and it produces eggs, the best you can do is usually feed them back to it. I know that sounds weird but if you feed the chicken back its own eggs, it helps recuperate lost nutrients, and they love it.

  • What's your opinion on balancing ethicality and salary for a CS job?

    I know this is a really vague question, I'm hoping for some open discussion

    For some background, I currently have 2.5 years of professional work experience, and I work for a large defense contractor doing devops.

    My approach to ethicality so far was basically, I need to start somewhere before I can be picky. I got hired at a large defense contractor out of college, and now that I've hit the 2 year mark for work experience, I have some flexibility in my next job when I decide to do that.

    If money wasn't a problem, I'd love to use my degree to do good for the world, or at least work for an industry I don't think is evil. And truthfully, even the lower end of CS jobs still pay better than the higher end of many other degrees.

    But right now I'm looking at job offers, and it seems like if I move to a tech, medical, or financial company, I could likely see a salary increase of 30-50%, which would be huge for me as I'm young and have debts to pay off (though much less than others, I'm pretty privileged).

    At the same time, if I took a tech job working for my city, I found a position that I am perfectly qualified for but it's a 10% cut from my current salary which I already believe to be a bit too low.

    Just curious to see how everyone else has made these decisions. It's very tempting to follow the money and take the highest paying job, but I'd love to work somewhere I'm genuinely proud of.

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    www.niskanencenter.org Philadelphia regional rail: population density and SEPTA’s fiscal crisis - Niskanen Center

    The term "mass transit" historically conveys the idea of scale—large systems designed to serve many people and connect major destinations in densely populated urban areas.

    Philadelphia regional rail: population density and SEPTA’s fiscal crisis - Niskanen Center
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    Gov. Shapiro orders PennDOT to flex $153 million to SEPTA to stop ‘death spiral'
    www.nbcphiladelphia.com Gov. Shapiro orders PennDOT to flex $153 million to SEPTA to stop 'death spiral'

    On Friday, Nov. 22, Gov. Josh Shapiro announced he directed PennDOT Secretary Mike Carroll to flex $153 million of federal highway capital funds to SEPTA immediately.

    Gov. Shapiro orders PennDOT to flex $153 million to SEPTA to stop 'death spiral'
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    How would you rank vegan imitation products?

    Pre-note: When I mention "imitation products", I mean a food item that is trying to exactly replicate a non vegan item. Something like a black bean burger is not an imitation production, it's just an alternative.

    I was bored so I started creating a tier list of vegan products and how closely they imitate non vegan products. I was trying to keep the list genericized with less emphasis on specific brands, but for some items the brand was really important.

    What would you move around? What would you add? I only have a few items so far. I'll update the list as comments come in.

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    S tier - practically indistinguishable

    • Beef burgers (impossible, beyond)
    • Breakfast sausages (impossible, beyond)
    • Chicken nuggets/patties
    • Mayo

    A tier - you can tell it's different but it's just as good

    • Queso dip (cashew based)
    • Ground beef (impossible, beyond)
    • Egg (just egg)
    • Butter
    • Milk
    • Ice cream

    B tier - you can tell it's different and it's a slight downgrade

    • Deli cheese slices (some brands are C or F)

    C tier - you can tell it's different and it's okay but a significant downgrade

    • Cream cheese (most brands)
    • Pizza

    F tier - you can tell it's different and it's not good

    • Beef jerky
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    [discussion] Aren't parking garages a decent way to consolidate parking as densely as possible? Why the hate?

    First off, I want to point out that I am totally on team /c/fuckcars. I highly believe in transit, walking, and biking.

    That being said, I think it's fair to say that:

    1. Cars aren't fully going away anytime soon
    2. Even in our wildest dreams, it still makes sense for cars to be usable in some way, just that the other transport methods are highly prioritized.

    So the discussion I want to have is about parking garages, and the hate I see towards them from the urbanist community.

    I feel like parking garages vaguely align with urbanist views, because they are high density, and they allow someone to drive to a general area after which they can do the rest of their transportation via other methods.

    To put it into perspective, I'd rather have 1-3 dense parking garages in a neighborhood than have street parking along all the roads plus wide open parking lots around grocery stores and whatnot.

    I understand this is a lesser of the two evils discussion but it seems to me like parking garages are the clear winner.

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    Didn't even think of this - watch out for animal based supplements in fortified foods

    I recently bought some multi grain cheerios (no honey in them) that I thought were vegan friendly. After finishing the box, I realized that they fortify it with vitamin D3, sourced from sheep wool.

    Shame because they seemed like a healthy, plant based source of whole grains.

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    Bass @lemmy.ml weastie @lemmy.world
    Does anyone else get in this loop of wanting to add a bunch of cool effects to your bass, then eventually realizing it would be cooler to play a clean bass underneath those effects instead?

    Every now and then, I love playing around with tremolo, flange, envelope filter, fuzz, creating really cool synthy and ambient tones.

    And then I get to a sound I think is so cool, but then it just feels like... if I could have a second clean bass playing underneath those tones, it would sound awesome.

    Like realistically, 99% of the time, it just sounds better when all the fun synthy sound effects are coming from a keyboard or an electric guitar, and then you have a mostly clean bass playing underneath it all.

    And then I enter a loop of going back to clean bass, then I add just a smidge of effects, then I think those effects sound cool and increase them... you get the point.

    Does anyone else fall into this madness?

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    Are isolated power supplies worth it?

    I somehow only just learned that daisy chaining all of your guitar pedals with the same power cable can cause extra noise. I don't have that many pedals right now which is probably why I didn't notice it.

    I recognize it's probably more important for recording than for live playback, but are isolated power supplies worth it? It's a hefty price to pay.

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    What would you have done? Takeout order had sour cream

    Hi /c/vegan,

    I just picked up tacos from some cheap Mexican place. They don't really do anything to cater to vegans but in the past, they basically just gave me extra rice and beans and removed any cheese, cream, or meat.

    Today I ordered and they put sour cream on it. I know that this place doesn't have a vegan sour cream, so it was a mistake.

    For a second I thought I wouldn't eat it, but I got in a moral debate in my head and decided that at this point, the damage is already done, and I tried my best to scrape off all the sour cream and ate the tacos.

    Obviously I still consumed a decent bit of sour cream which makes me sad, but I don't know, I couldn't see it being more moral to not eat it. And I don't want to call them back and harass some minimum wage workers about it either, since they've gotten it correct in the past.

    TL;DR: Cheap takeout had sour cream in it, would you scrape it off and still eat it? Throw it away? Demand a refund?

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    The inability to recognize the highly nuanced cognitive differences between different animal species is slightly putting me off of "strict" veganism

    Hi /c/vegan,

    I'm a baby "vegan", just started about a month ago. I started watching the YouTuber MicTheVegan as my main influence.

    I've been really working on and developing my belief system. The issue is, my belief system so far, while it is like 97% consistent with veganism, does have some conflicts with veganism, and I think some people would say that I can't call myself a vegan because of that.

    Basically, I think it's too broad to simply lump all animals into one category and say that any at all exploitation of them is wrong. Instead, I like taking a very scientific approach about what we know about different animals' cognitive and emotional abilities, and perhaps prioritize different groups of animals differently.

    While I'm still developing my belief systems, here's a basic rundown of it:

    Tier 1: Primates, cetaceans (whales, dolphins), elephants, certain bird species (corvids, parrots), octopuses

    These animals are highly intelligent and should never be exploited for any manner. They should not be kept as pets or in zoos (I suppose exceptions for if an animal is injured beyond repair).

    Tier 2: Domesticated mammals (dogs, cats), farm animals (pigs, cows), other bird species, certain fish species (cleaner wrasse, groupers)

    The only difference between these animals and tier 1 animals, is that I believe they can be kept in captivity (pets or in zoos). However, they need to be kept up to really high standards. They need a lot of space and a lot of enrichment. Yes, I currently believe that most people who keep dogs as pets do not treat them well enough, but I also believe that if you do treat them well that it is okay.

    Tier 3: Reptiles, amphibians, remaining fish species.

    The only difference between these animals and tier 2 animals is that I think the standard for keeping them in captivity can be slightly lowered. I say this as a reptile lover, I have a couple lizards as pets. These animals still need very high standards for treatment, but I believe it's okay to keep them in "cages" (really terrariums and aquariums). Basically, the science we have says that these animals just don't need the same level as enrichment. Some lizards will literally sit in one spot for days. And yes, I highly believe that these animals are abused in reality. Many people keep these animals in far too small enclosures, among other problems.

    The discussion of whether or not it's okay to breed these animals is highly nuanced, but I know with reptiles and amphibians, they really don't have any connection to their offspring so I don't think it's unethical to separate them. Some reptiles who lay eggs will even lay eggs regardless of if they are fertilized or not. I haven't made my mind up about it, but I think you could make an argument that you could ethically breed reptiles, maybe even argue that allowing them to breed let's them live a more natural life.

    Tier 4: Insects, arachnids

    Okay this is where a lot of vegans will lose me. These animals should absolutely never be tortured, but I personally think that they can be ethically farmed and consumed. I think these animals have simple enough brains that their quality of life when in a farmed environment really isn't that much different than their natural lives. I personally don't eat bugs, but I feed them to my lizards. That being said, I still think they deserve a decent amount of space, some enrichment, and a cruelty free life up until their death.

    Tier 5: Bivalves (clams, mussels), annelids (earthworms), sponges.

    Once again will get some hate for it, but these animals I also believe can be farmed and with even less consideration than the tier 4 animals. I don't really think these animals need any laws protecting them. They don't have central nervous systems.

    Animal I'm not sure about: Crustaceans (somewhere between tier 3 and tier 4), Many fish species need more research (but I do standby that some fish, like carp and goldfish, belong in my tier 3).

    I'm curious what other vegan's thoughts are about this. Can I not call myself a vegan because of this?

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    What are your most used / favorite bass pedals?
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