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The Queer Guide to Finding a Fediverse Server.
  • Thanks for the updated. I have edited the post to reflect the latest information.

  • The Queer Guide to Finding a Fediverse Server.
  • Thanks, have added it. Sorry for delay, had a busy month.

  • Conversation with Serhii Plokhy and Olia Hercules
  • This was great. Got the chance to watch/listen to it earlier today with @dana@lemmy.blahaj.zone

  • Shadowrun Returns Trilogy 77% Off
  • I use reading glasses, but can still manage small text so long as I'm wearing them. I don't actually have a steamdeck of my own yet, although my spouse has one.

  • Zizek says to listen to Ukraine
  • I think by that he means the Tankies that see everything in a black and white 'NATO bad, everything that opposes NATO good, including Russia' kind of left wing populism, and the 'Russia is good old capitalist oligarchy theocratic fascism just like we want to do here so we should support them' right wing populism. From what I've heard I think Zizek is probably a lot more authoritarian than me (an anarchist, and a leftist), but if he has enough sense to oppose Tankies then I grudgingly accept him as a temporary ally in the fight against Russia.

  • Zizek says to listen to Ukraine

    I don't follow Zizek, and things I've heard about him have given me pause, but one thing he is right about is his criticism of the left-right populist alliance in support of Russian imperialism...

    https://www.project-syndicate.org/commentary/left-right-populist-alliance-against-ukraine-by-slavoj-zizek-2023-06

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    Lemmy link posts not showing in Calckey
  • Okay, will bear in mind. These are reddit style link posts. But if they don't even show up in Calckey (do they in mastodon? Anyone know?) then it will make it harder to boost and share. Technically we could link the lemmy post directly in a calckey/mastodon toot, but that kind of defeats the point... blobcat, notlikethiscry

  • Shadowrun Returns Trilogy 77% Off
  • How did you find reading the text? My spouse has a Steamdeck, and we both have the Shadowrun trilogy, but we played them on linux laptops so much bigger screens. Love those games. Really hope Harebrained schemes take their learning from Battletech and give us as much more graphically updated Shadowrun game in the not too distant future. (ie Close up/more visually interesting camera angles when making moves, taking shots, casting spells etc in combat), rather than just being locked in isometric view all the time...)

  • A Ukraine focused group
  • @I_Like_Books@strangeobject.space I don't think you need multiple accounts. I am following this group from Calckey, Lemmy and Friendica, but you can just do it with one. In Calckey you just see the new posts and replies in your timeline as they are posted. In Lemmy you get to browse the threads, and some threads can be pinned to be at the top of the list. In Friendica it is similar to Lemmy, but old threads are not automatically imported, so when you first follow you see nothing. Presumably any thread that has activity will then appear in Friendica., once the federated servers sync.

  • A Ukraine focused group
  • I think we can make this group grow, but ALSO we should all follow the other group. That way there is no split. That other group is on a different server, so our group may reach servers that server isn't federated with, either right now, or sometime in the future.

  • The Queer Guide to Finding a Fediverse Server.
  • Thanks, that is interesting. However since it remains unfederated, I won't confuse people by putting it in the fediverse guide. I am glad you have included it as a reply though.

  • The Queer Guide to Finding a Fediverse Server.
  • Since the abuser is no longer there, and there is no problems with abusive behaviour or rules from that instance, continued defederation seems a bit strong, especially when there are far worse instances everyone is still federated with (stux, gargamel, and all the meta 'wait and see' sell outs etc). At this point it seems that it is just a grudge and bad blood between instance admins, and it is users that suffer the consequences.

  • The Queer Guide to Finding a Fediverse Server.
  • From what I understand Laurelai was booted from eightpoint though, so the fact eightpoint is still defederated is a point of some other drama.

  • The Queer Guide to Finding a Fediverse Server.
  • It already does include chaosfem.tw. Never heard of toot.cat, so adding now. I was aware that eightpoint and tech.lgbt defedded over something, but not any others. My instance still federates with eightpoint and I still have friends there. Everyone there seems chill so it seems a bit odd.

  • I hope memes are fine here :3
  • I kinda feel 'Toni' fits somewhere between these, but maybe that is just me.

  • How'd y'alls' prides go?
  • Will have to make it down to Edinburgh Pride one year. This year will just being doing the Highland Pride here in Inverness on July 22nd.

  • How'd y'alls' prides go?
  • Huh. Pride day isn't until 22nd July here, so will have to wait and see. Will be my first since transition.

  • A Ukraine focused group
    lemmy.blahaj.zone Ukraine - Blåhaj Lemmy

    News and discussion related to Ukraine

    Ukraine - Blåhaj Lemmy

    Found this Ukraine focused group that seems a bit better established...

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    The Queer Guide to Finding a Fediverse Server.
  • Thanks. I have added it to the list.

  • Architects of Terror
  • Yes. Now this is actionable in terms of petitions to governments.

  • LGBTQ+ @lemmy.blahaj.zone Toni Widmo @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    The Queer Guide to Finding a Fediverse Server.

    Joining the fediverse can be a daunting proposition, and it is understandable that many end up on larger more centralised servers that are easier to find. I have also had some bad experience with smaller servers also. The first one I arrived on was very quiet, almost inactive, and I should have taken that as a warning sign. Later it went down and I had to join another. Unfortunately the next server was mastodon.lol and so within a year I had to deal with the drama of that one shutting down. At least this time I had six months notice to migrate.

    But bigger servers have their own pitfalls. It is easy to get lost in them, being disconnected from the admins. Many are poorly moderated and willing to federate with problematic instances that increase your chances of encountering more explicit forms ablism, racism and queerphobia. And in recent weeks we have seen the willingness of these larger servers to connect to a new service made by Meta, Facebooks parent company, with the onslaught of bigotry that will bring.

    So whether you are thinking of joining the fediverse, or are already here but thinking of either migrating or forming other accounts, this guide is for you. It is also for you to share to queer friends that want to join.

    Feel free to expand on this list with suggestions in replies. I will try and keep it up to date with which instances are open/invite only, if people can help me notice.

    Microblogging (Twitter like interfaces)

    Mastodon

    The most popular microblogging software on the fediverse. Good app support

    Currently open to new members

    • https://chaos.social (two admins, one a polyam lesbian)
    • https://queer.af (run by Erin who helped draft the ActivityPub protocol the fediverse depends on. I think she is a German trans woman? I might be remembering wrong. Will edit if someone clarifies. NOTE: the .af domain is Afganistan, and these domains will no longer be available to register or reregister, so this instance will likely end up with a new domain name in the near future.)
    • https://toot.lgbt (run by Julia, a Scottish trans woman)
    • https://plush.city (run by nonbinary and pan/bi furries)
    • https://anarres.family (run by anarchist trans woman inspired by sci-fi of Ursula le Guin)
    • https://girlcock.club (run by trans women for trans people)
    • https://eightpoint.app (run by trans bi lesbian)
    • https://lgbtqia.space
    • https://chaosfem.tw (trans admin)
    • https://towns.gay
    • https://dragonscave.space (mod team includes admins who are enby, ace, agender, visually impaired)
    • https://toot.cat (trans admin)
    • https://pagan.plus (its primarilly for pagans, but admin is agender)
    • https://tech.lgbt (for lgbt people in tech)
    • https://peoplemaking.games (admin is bi and genderfluid, but server is for those involved in making games)

    Invite only

    You might need to network with admins or users of the following instances to get an invite

    • https://weirder.earth (all LGBT admin team that includes nonbinary, bi, aroace, queer, transfemme representation, many also adhd, autistic and one light skinned black)
    • https://goblin.camp (admin is pan enby)
    • https://queer.group (run by bisexual lesbian and trans lesbian)
    • https://queer.party (the admin is a nonbinary, gay, and polyamorous furry)

    Sharkey

    Can use Mastodon and Misskey apps to connect. I use Milktea (a Misskey app) for mobile notifications, but the generic web interface in the browser is so good I usually go there for interaction.

    • https://blahaj.zone (run by the two Australian trans women that also run this server)
    • https://transfem.social/ (transfem run instance for transfem individuals and allies)
    • https://woem.men (trans catgirl instance with trans moderator)

    Akkoma

    • https://cooltrans.men (trans masc instance)

    Social Networking (Facebook like interfaces)

    Friendica

    • https://embers.social (run by the two Australian trans women that also run this server)

    Forum (Reddit like interfaces)

    Lemmy

    • https://beehaw.org (large instance, several mods are openly queer)
    • https://lemmy.blahaj.zone (this server, run by trans women)
    • https://hexbear.net (most mods/admin are LGBTQ+, shows pronouns with usernames)

    KBin

    • https://fedi196.gay/
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    Proposed Rules

    Zero tolerance for:

    • Bigotry (Racism, Ablism, Misogyny, Homephobia, Transphobia or any form of Queerphobia etc)
    • Russian propaganda (both sidism, blaming NATO for Ukraine war, blaming Ukraine for the dam etc)
    • Claiming Ukraine doesn't deserve support due to its own poor record on race and LGBT rights. These things are true, Ukraine does have room to improve on those issues, but it won't unless it frees itself from Russian sphere of influence.
    • Claiming that Ukraine are Nazis. There are Nazis in most Western and Eastern militaries. This is irrelevant because it does not therefore follow that such countries deserve to be invaded in a genocidal war of aggression by a larger more fascist neighbour.
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    ~~Just getting things set up in here just now. ~~ Almost there...

    Still getting things set up. The following things are still needed to finish setting up this group/community. I welcome suggestions in the comments.

    What is still needed:

    • Avatar for group. Roughly square/circle image to represent group. Done
    • Group banner. Rectangular image, wide or landscape orientation, to improve look of group profile. Done
    • Suggestions for resources to support Ukraine, to be included in group description. Done
    • Suggestions for good pro-Ukraine media and podcasts, to be included in group description. Done
    • Suggestions for how to explore and promote Ukrainian culture (i.e. books and things to support), that could be included in the description, or maybe a detailed pinned post. Done
    • Create a pinned post
    • Create petition for NATO to threaten nuclear response if nuclear power plant is destroyed.
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    toni Toni Widmo @lemmy.blahaj.zone

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