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  • I'm in a disabilities chat group and we're often surprised when we're reminded that "0" is the "normal" level of pain you're "supposed to have" day to day. Everyone's baseline is different. Pain sucks. (Unsolicited fact: my back pain got much better after I started physical therapy for it. I'm glad my health insurance covered it. Next round of PT: my knees. Why they be like that? [it's probably the EDS])

  • We gave away computer parts on Craigslist a few months ago. It was a no-stress transaction and the receiver was a sweet old-school computer person building a basic machine for his kids to play Minecraft. Would do again.

  • From a "giving tech support" POV, nano is the best editor. Have you ever tried walking a non-techie through editing a config file on the command line, over the phone, no screen share? Nano is your friend. (I swear, this very expensive software I used to support got its sysadmins by picking whoever was absent the day the the client site figured out someone had to do it.)

  • I like "human". I'll ask strange dogs at the dog park "where is your human?"

    I do similar to strange children that look lost at the grocery store--"where is your grown-up?" (I don't want to assume their family structure, and an adult talking to them usually causes them to dash back to their adult. Doesn't work the same way with dogs, tbh.)

  • It's also off-putting when veterinary staff do it. I get that it's easier than remembering the human client's name, but I'm not my dog's mom, for several reasons:

    1. I'm not a woman. Y'all are just misgendering me.
    2. He's a son of a bitch, not a human
    3. If he was the son of a human, that human was my grandma. I took him in after her death. That makes him my half-uncle.
  • other hair may also be licked---my dog is really into beards and eyebrows. He also tries to get into ear canals. For him, though, you just need to wash off the tasty, tasty face oils. Then he gives a single lick and walks off in disappointment.

  • I have the tiniest conflict of interest when it comes to police unions. Police shouldn't have unions, buuuut my state's state police union bargains alongside the other state employee unions. No one wants to cut pay or benefits to the police, so my pay and benefits are also fairly stable.

    I get why we do it strategically, it just leaves a bad taste in my mouth every contract cycle.

  • Just give up

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  • The book "How To Keep House While Drowning" had a similar takeaway for me: summary: you probably have ADHD. You definitely don't have enough time to do everything. Figure out what tasks need doing and how to make them easier. Your house might not end up looking like a Home and Garden magazine, but if it works for you that's the important thing. Also, don't feel guilty paying people to help you if you need it and can afford it.

  • Linux

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  • Shared with my Linux friend that is learning Spanish to better communicate with the almost-in-laws. They were amused.

    update: so was their Windows boyfriend, who helped them with the "bless Gabe Newell" line.

  • Same, but my state. It was maybe 6 months after mine was stolen.

    (technically, you can still sell them but the rules are strict. One of the ways was if the catalytic converter was attached to a car at the time. I think the other way was just more paperwork.)

    ETA link to legislation