Currently it's Tears of the Kingdom. The music, the atmosphere, stable side quests etc. make it so chill and comforting. Some others are Ori and the will of the wisps, My time at Portia, Spiritfarer, Crosscode. Witcher 3 is also great to get lost in and forget about real life.

Damn...this is embarrassing. A child could come up with a better answer

Missing mapsporn as well - found !map_enthusiasts@sopuli.xyz although it's pretty small at the moment.

So this is what I don't get - do i need an acct in every instance or a single one will suffice? Can I view and participate in all communities in the other instances that I don't have accts in? Is there an advantage to having an acct on one instance over another or it doesn't matter at all?

I think a lot of other first-timers are confused about this as well.