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  • Thanks, though um. This feels a bit ableist against autistic folks.

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  • Really connected with the child that lives here. Hopefully reconnected with old friends.

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  • Gender is kind of fucky. It doesn't necessarily matter to someone being trans. We know that's a controversial take but what we mean is this: Gender and sex are both social constructs, therefore don't worry too much about feeling one overarching 'gender' or something, instead focus on things like "what do I like to do?", "who do I want to be?", "am I okay with my body?" "if I am not okay with my body then why not?" "how can the things I am not okay with be resolved? Is it through learning to accept that I don't have to look like people expect or do I genuinely want to change my body?" etc etc. We genuinely hope this helps.

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  • We're not sure what system they use, but yeah. That was our thoughts too.

  • Why doesn't this community use the official AroAce Sunset flag?
  • No, we completely disagree. They look nothing alike.

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  • Sadly they are putting 'AI' bullshit into it now: https://bitwarden.com/blog/bitwarden-mcp-server/

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  • Thanks for understanding and yeah. We would be willing to discuss this over a messenger with you. Feel free to DM us to get that set up, if you'd like to do so. No worries if not though!

  • TransLater @lemmy.blahaj.zone Of the Air (cele/celes) @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    The Politics of Sex at Birth (or why we should stop saying AMAB and AFAB)

    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/28783084

    > How trying to define ourselves or others define us by assigned sex at birth doesn't serve us and is generally oppressive and incorrect, both scientifically and socially.

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    The Politics of Sex at Birth (or why we should stop saying AMAB and AFAB)

    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/28783084

    > How trying to define ourselves or others define us by assigned sex at birth doesn't serve us and is generally oppressive and incorrect, both scientifically and socially.

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    The Politics of Sex at Birth (or why we should stop saying AMAB and AFAB)

    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/28783084

    > How trying to define ourselves or others define us by assigned sex at birth doesn't serve us and is generally oppressive and incorrect, both scientifically and socially.

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    The Politics of Sex at Birth (or why we should stop saying AMAB and AFAB)

    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/28783084

    > How trying to define ourselves or others define us by assigned sex at birth doesn't serve us and is generally oppressive and incorrect, both scientifically and socially.

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    The Politics of Sex at Birth (or why we should stop saying AMAB and AFAB)

    How trying to define ourselves or others define us by assigned sex at birth doesn't serve us and is generally oppressive and incorrect, both scientifically and socially.

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    Open

    So, we thought about keeping this closed until we had done the posts explaining things. However, we can see it's more important for us to have a place to talk etc. Therefore we are opening it up and will do the posts later.

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    Dyeing armpit hair help request

    Do any of y'all have any advice, tips and tricks on dyeing underarm hair? We are thinking of dyeing it for two different prides and just in general with some manic panic dye as that is apparently deemed to be safe for such things and we were wondering how to do it safely (moreso than just using a safe dye), how long it would last etc.

    Any advice, tips and tricks or even links to exhaustive, easy to follow for beginners guides would be useful. Thanks!

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    Why doesn't this community use the official AroAce Sunset flag?

    In case you aren't aware there is an official AroAce 'Sunset' flag, we were wondering why it's not used for this community.

    This is the flag: !The Aro Ace Sunset Flag created by aroaesflags on tumbr. It has 5 stripes. The top is Orange, followed by Yellow, then White, then Light Blue and finally Dark Blue.

    Image description: The Aro Ace Sunset Flag created by aroaesflags on tumbr. It has 5 stripes. The top is Orange, followed by Yellow, then White, then Light Blue and finally Dark Blue.

    More information can be found here: https://lgbtqia.fandom.com/Aromantic_asexual#Flag

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    We created a new community, specifically for personal and intimate questions etc

    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/27212481

    > We created a new community for all Trans and Queer people to ask and answer more personal and intimate questions! Hope this helps! > > !tquad@lemmy.blahaj.zone >

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    We created a new community, specifically for personal and intimate questions etc

    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/27212481

    > We created a new community for all Trans and Queer people to ask and answer more personal and intimate questions! Hope this helps! > > !tquad@lemmy.blahaj.zone >

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    TransitionQuestions @lemmy.blahaj.zone Of the Air (cele/celes) @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    We created a new community, specifically for personal and intimate questions etc

    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/27212481

    > We created a new community for all Trans and Queer people to ask and answer more personal and intimate questions! Hope this helps! > > !tquad@lemmy.blahaj.zone >

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    We created a new community, specifically for personal and intimate questions etc

    We created a new community for all Trans and Queer people to ask and answer more personal and intimate questions! Hope this helps!

    !tquad@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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    Followup to our previous post, a new community

    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/27212381

    > We created a new community for all Trans and Queer people to ask and answer more personal and intimate questions! Hope this helps! > > !tquad@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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    Followup to our previous post, a new community

    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/27212381

    > We created a new community for all Trans and Queer people to ask and answer more personal and intimate questions! Hope this helps! > > !tquad@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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    Followup to our previous post, a new community

    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/27212381

    > We created a new community for all Trans and Queer people to ask and answer more personal and intimate questions! Hope this helps! > > !tquad@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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    Followup to our previous post, a new community

    We created a new community for all Trans and Queer people to ask and answer more personal and intimate questions! Hope this helps!

    !tquad@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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    More appropriate place for more 'personal' and intimate questions etc?

    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/27207748 > cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/27207610 > > Is there a community here that's more appropriate for trans/queer folks to ask and answer more personal and intimate questions? If not would y'all like one created?

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    More appropriate place for more 'personal' and intimate questions etc?

    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/27207610 > Is there a community here that's more appropriate for trans/queer folks to ask and answer more personal and intimate questions? If not would y'all like one created?

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    LGBTQ+ @lemmy.blahaj.zone Of the Air (cele/celes) @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    More appropriate place for more 'personal' and intimate questions etc?

    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/27207610 > Is there a community here that's more appropriate for trans/queer folks to ask and answer more personal and intimate questions? If not would y'all like one created?

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