Can it not be both? Obviously orgasms are freat but sex with my partner is just a really special time with lots of laughing and cuddling between

Is the Kickass women of history series still ongoing? I would like to nominate Rose Valland. During WWII, she spied on the Nazis who were systematically stealing art from France. She helped find and return stolen art after the war was over.

I recently listened to a podcast episode about her passion and she was a remarkable woman!

Those are definitely fair points. I am sure there have been men who've been told to "man up" if they didn't want to have sex with a woman. As Madzielle said this stereotype (and the patriarchy) hurt men too

I am doing much better with not taking it personally! Thanks for your perspective. It's not always easy but I definitely prefer a good relationship even if the sex could be more frequent

That does sound like a very interesting perspective, I'll have to look into that book. Thanks!

I'm glad that you were able to overcome these feelings, they definitely don't help the situation!

Thank you so much for sharing your experience, it means a lot. I am glad you were both able to work through these feelings and that you managed to overcome this change

Thank you! I'll try both of you suggestions

Yes, I saw that setting too but often I see a post and I want to come back to the post at a later stage to see if anything new was added to the conversation. On the commect app, I had the possibility to hide individual posts, which suited my needs better