I'm a little worried Lemmy may not be ready for prime time. I've already had a few times where my post to another instance just vanishes. But when I made an account on the other instance that worked fine. It seems like choosing the right instance is more important than I initially thought.

Is this because the admin of one of the instances blocked the other from posting? Does it federate by default or is it on an approved basis? I'd like to spin own instance as well but depending on how interop works between instances that also seems like a poor decision.

I'll keep looking but a more informative FAQ would be great

Mostly killing time in various situations. I do have a set of subreddits that I gravitate to for some news type situations, but honestly it's a pretty large time sink that I've really had my eyes opened to since yesterday. Hoping to find a happy medium between that and quitting this type of content entirely.