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  • I don't want to share my location nor have anyone else's shared with me.

    Friends and partners can text "I'll be there in 5"

    My friend shares her location with her mother. Her mother then nags her with like "Are you seeing someone new? You're spending a lot of time in north brooklyn now." Like, who needs that, or even the temptation of that?

    A tech solution is not going to fix a social/mental problem like fear of cheating.

  • The cops always park in the bike and pedestrian lanes in prospect park, and it makes me so mad.

    Personally I feel like if you park in the bike lane for any reason that's not life or death, people should be allowed to do what they want to your car. Maybe move it. Maybe key it. I don't care. It's a hazard for everyone.

  • If I was going to make something like this, it would have to incorporate trust chains. I don't care if some maga-hat says this lady is horrible. I care if my good friend Alex says she's horrible. One person's "this person won't shut up about communism" is a big red flag (no pun intended) but for someone else that's the dream.

    When you sign up, you'd need to be referred to someone or be a root node. Anyone connected to you can be weighted differently. If some section of the tree is misbehaving, prune it.

    But that's a lot of work

  • I've lived here for almost two decades and I've almost never had a problem with bikes.

    I did once see a driver make a right turn and hit a delivery bike kid, drag him for a few feet, and then speed off. Luckily, teenagers I guess are indestructible and the kid got up and rode away after a few minutes.

    If you want better bike and pedestrian safety, the solution is probably build better bike lanes. There are a lot of spots with nothing, or a painted suggestion. There's a spot near prospect park where they expect the bicyclist to turn right, pass through a lane of traffic, and then just hang out in the center lane with all the cars. It's a nightmare.

  • I don't understand why people are making plans they don't want to do. I see this kind of thing all the time and I don't get it at all. I like doing stuff. That's why I agreed to do it. I got invited to something I didn't want to do this weekend, and I said no thanks. Just sitting at home scrolling the internet or playing a video game is fine, but it's way less rewarding than doing stuff with other people.

    Maybe the internet just selects more for introverts and sad people?

  • I've played a fair amount of PbtA and close relatives, mostly at a meetup I go to that does one shots. Never seen anyone playing apocalypse world.

    I don't really like pbta that much, though, so I'm not seeking it out.

  • Google probably wants to keep you on google.com, where they have ads. By doing the AI stuff, you never click through to someone else's page. They get 100% of the interactions and can sell all the clicks.

    It's monopoly stuff. They should be stopped, with whatever box of liberty is needed.

  • When I worked an old job in the office, the game of telephone from the CEO down was so bad. People would get in their head that some things were MUST HAVE, but if I sneakily just asked the CEO directly he'd be like "no that's not important". But the designer thought he wanted it so she told the product lead it was important so our team product guy was told this was "straight from the top".

  • And issues with communication are made worse when everything is pushed to text where nuance is lost and everything is archived which can be used against you.

    There's some truth to this, but also video chat is commonplace now. That can be recorded too, but so can anything. Some of my coworkers started using Signal for out of band communication even though zoom/slack said they didn't retain any recordings.

    If they can't work remotely, they should be leveled up. Stop dragging everyone else down.

    And again, if you can only communicate in person you're probably bad at communicating in person, too, without realizing it. I think a lot of CEO types think they're amazing because they walk into a room and everyone's like "yeah boss got it that's great feedback", and they don't realize they just said a bunch of garbage and people just agreed because he's the boss.

  • He would talk about how many people told him they were longing for the day when we could all be on-site again. I have no idea who those people were, because everyone I spoke to thought WFH was fantastic.

    My old CEO would pull this bullshit, too. He'd say like "I've heard from people that [wild claim]". The team was like 5 people it's not like I couldn't go ask people if they actually said that. I think it's some sort of asshole-lying mechanism.