Most guys aren't attracted to other men. I don't know modern numbers, but wikipedia has <10% of u.s. people identifying as lgbtq+ combined.

Source: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBTQ_demographics_of_the_United_States

$HOME/.local/state/nvim has some stuff

$HOME/.local/share/nvim and $HOME/cache/nvim may have some things, I don't remember

$HOME/.config/coc may have some stuff if you use the coc-vim extention

Zfs has native encryption. I'm sure there is a way to do encrypted raid, but I haven't tried