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Capitalism is nothing but a giant pyramid scheme.
  • You're not forced to take on that debt though, nor is the debt unpayable unless you take on more debt. Some people put themselves into a ponzi-like situation either through poor financial decision making or circumstances so shit that they can't do any better, but the average person doesn't need to take out a loan on a freaking pair of nikes or even a car or house. It's a cultural norm to get a mortgage, but if you do the math it often doesn't make sense to and isn't anywhere close to mandatory. At most you could argue that the US government debt works that way, but even that's iffy and depends on your geopolitical outlook.

  • Capitalism is nothing but a giant pyramid scheme.
  • How so though? This sounds like a statement that's meant to be flashy but doesn't actually hold up. Pyramid schemes are characterized by a) an eventual lack of ability to recruit more people, b) recruitment rather than a product or a service being the driver, and c) a person at the bottom left with nothing, including recourse. Capitalism, even completely free capitalism, doesn't work like that unless you specifically rig it to do so. That's called "corruption".

  • People who have a weekly/two week/monthly meal plan that never changes, how did you plan it out?
  • There's probably also a difference in the variety within each dish and the effect it has. "Eating the same thing" is probably better if you eat granola with dark chocolate, cashews, blueberries, and spinach topped with almond milk and banana for breakfast versus a banana for breakfast. The nutrient profile is still always the same and that's not great, but at least the former has different nutrient profiles within it.

  • Tried and can highly recommend "minimizing your merchants"
  • Everything about Loblaws just screams "lol fuck you", because they're everywhere and there's nothing you can do about it and they know it. They're a bit like Putin - he knows he's lying, and he knows you know, but he does it anyway with a huge grin on his face as if to mock you. They're even worse than telecom.

  • Tried and can highly recommend "minimizing your merchants"
  • I've actually gotten into niche stores like bakeries. I'm not the stop and smell the roses type, but there's nothing like a good loaf of bread. I'm also streamlining my diet, so that helps a lot because you can get the same "whole foods" virtually anywhere and you don't need a thousand fancy packaged branded foods.

  • People who have a weekly/two week/monthly meal plan that never changes, how did you plan it out?
  • I'm not a dietitian either, but I am followed by one, and their recommendation for me specifically was to try it and report back with a list of what I ate and whether the Master Plan (TM) stuck. The lack of variation isn't ideal, but in my case, as per their rationale, the potential benefits outweigh the downsides because I tend to default to junk food when my culinary life gets too complicated (she isn't wrong). Granted though, I don't plan to eat the same thing daily, so for someone who's literally on repeat every single day or who already has a very healthy diet, I imagine the recommendation would likely change.

  • Tried and can highly recommend "minimizing your merchants"

    So this is not something that's very often discussed in minimalism communities, but I've recently gone through the process of minimizing the merchants that I interact with. A lot of mental clutter is bureaucratic, and anyone who tracks their spending rigorously knows how often things get messed up. Cards getting charged mistakenly, companies trying to pull sketchy shit, deliveries not showing up, etc. A side effect of minimizing initially was that I just spent less time working out issues with underpaid and therefore lazy customer service reps, and I found that to be a huge unexpected relief, but not a fully effective one, so two months ago I just went through all of my cards and made a list of every single company I give money to every month and stripped out what I could. I was OK with spending a bit of extra money to pare down that list, but actually ended up saving money on net - sometimes you spend more money than you save trying to take advantage of deals and such, and the more companies you interact with the more you're going to get screwed over.

    I tried to get rid of the following:

    1. Any companies I don't jive with ethically. Loblaw (in Canada) is horrid, and I was really only still buying from them because of the brief inconvenience of having to find an alternative (they're virtually monopolizing the grocery and toiletry sector at this point). I also took a couple of hours and contacted EVERY company I give significant money to to make sure they don't support Russia. Fuck you Proctor & Gamble. It's a huge moral weight off of my shoulders to know that, at bare minimum, I'm not making that situation worse. I only realized afterwards that I was SO SICK of walking into stores that just made my skin crawl, and how much it was weighing on me to support disgusting practices because convenience. This was, unexpectedly, by far the biggest plus.

    2. Any companies that had given me issues in the past. If you charge me a bullshit fee or don't make every effort to fix your mistakes, it's not worth my time. Banks were the biggest culprit here, followed by anything that Uber has ever touched. Also fuck you, Uber.

    3. Anything redundant. For example, there were some places I was just going to because they had the best price on one or two products. Not really worth my time. It's great that your toothpaste or whatever is 50 cents cheaper than the next cheapest one, but the mental energy it takes to go out of my way to go to that store just isn't worth it at this point. I also don't need to get certain categories of stuff at five different places - it cuts down on decision fatigue to just have one place where you get all of your [fill in the blank].

    4. Anything that I didn't feel good spending money on and was a headache. For example, while I love ordering delivery every once in a while, uber/doordash's customer support is just so, so insultingly bad and things go wrong too often, and in the end it's just too expensive. For that price I can invest in "my future" or "an experience", which is just worth more than that temporary comfort.

    5. Any random subscriptions or anything coming off of my card that I didn't really need. I had an annual subscription for a website that lets you make animated christmas cards. And the subscription renews in... April. WTF??? So yeah, that needed to go. Also cancelled spotify, had already cancelled netflix before I started.

    I tried to find and add:

    1. Ethically "better" merchants. I found restaurants that offer in-house delivery so that I don't need to use food delivery apps. They. Are. So. Much. Cheaper. You can't beat $20 chinese food that lasts for two days. Credit unions are something that have been on my mind for a while. I also tried to find non-chain stores. I'm ok with the fact that I won't be ethically perfect as a consumer, but in that area too many people let perfect be the enemy of good.

    2. Things that I wanted to spend more money on, usually to align with desired behaviors. A thrift store with good prices, healthy fast food, and place to get books. I tend to respond really well to habitual behaviors, so I find that if I just plunk it into my schedule it grows on me.

    End results:

    • Savings of $220 in first full billing cycle.

    • Cut out over half of merchants, weirdly. A lot of these were stores for everyday stuff - groceries, food delivery, drugstores, netflix and other digital subscription services, etc.

    • Deleted so many apps. BYE UBER AND FUCK YOU FOREVER.

    • Just feel a lot more free and better, because a lot of places are out of my mind, completely, especially things that had been nagging at me forever.

    • MUCH better customer service. Goddamn, these "small businesses" that everyone talks about. They actually treat you like a human. Now I understand the hype.

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    Have you ever met someone who is not good at academics but is good at other aspects? What makes them that way?
  • I think there's two subsets of these people.

    One subset is actually really smart, book smart even, but just doesn't have a personality that aligns with the format of the education system. Those people tend to do really well in a different environment where they have more intrinsic motivation to succeed. For example, I know someone who didn't do well in school even though he had the ability to because he just didn't really see any reward, so he had no motivation. He went into finance and got through uni and his first few job with flying colors, because there was a reward at the end of the tunnel to pursue.

    The other subset just doesn't do well with any sort of "bookish" stuff - math, sciences, finance, engineering, etc. just don't really fly. A lot of them I find feel a bit lost because they feel pressure to find a passion or orient themselves around a career when they just don't have anything that sparks an interest. I find that those people tend to do well when they pursue "active" jobs that don't feel like school. A person I know in this category struggled with school throughout his life, but was really good at working with people and interacting on that emotional plane. He went into social services and now works as a crisis counsellor. Most of the "schooling" was basically just situational training, and the job itself is so intuitive to him. Honestly if he didn't have bills to pay I swear he'd do that job for free. Other people in this category are ok with a job just feeling like work, so any high paying trade tends to work well because they can go to work, do their hours, and then enjoy life.

  • What was the most illegal thing your workplace has done?
  • I'm sure this isn't the biggest thing, but I used to work at a big chain grocery store and "accidentally forget" to scan certain items. Old woman with a food stamp in her hand vs. u/spez-level arrogant billionaire CEO? You pay me $10/hr you fuckers, if you want me to notice the toilet paper in the bottom of the cart you'd better up my pay or help that chick out. I was far from the only one.

  • Is there a movie or show that changed how you see something?
  • The doc "Ivory Tower" really got me interested in alternatives to traditional higher education, i.e. the kind that will get you the same income without $100000000000000000000000000000 in debt compounding at a rate of 100% daily. Fuck colleges man, honestly.

  • People on Lemmy/ kbin not called Karen - have you ever asked to speak to the manager - and actually had a good reason for doing so?
  • I'm sure everyone has had at least a couple of cases. For me it was when a bank employee performed a cash advance, which I have never, ever consented to in my life, and then claimed I had given her permission to do it. Read: she fucked up and blamed it on me. I requested the contact info of her supervisor, who had the audacity to suggest that it wasn't a large sum of money and I should essentially suck it up. That branch manager got an earful and a half and a phone call from the competition bureau (which was great, because it usually takes multiple complaints for them to take action).

    Now this is the Karen-y part. Whenever a company that I'm a regular customer of does something morally wrong (as opposed to a mistake or a less than competent employee), I boycott them until, in my estimation, I've cost them 100x the sum of the initial disputed amount (I have substitute actions for cases that don't have a clear dollar value). In this case I cancelled my credit products with them. My boycott is set to expire (i.e. reach the 100x mark) in February of 2024. The rationale behind this is that if 1% of consumers do it, it'll no longer be worth it for them to continue the practice, and it gives you a satisfying end goal. You can't boycott every company that wrongs you indefinitely - I only have a handful on my permanent blacklist - but I can make my peace with it if I know I've comfortably done my part.

  • What's a philosophical (not overtly political) position that you hold?
  • We have a huge amount of resources for very little effort though. Back in the day you could work your ass off in the field all day, but there was no medical technology to cure illness, no vast swaths of entertainment options, no heating to keep you warm (unless you made a fire), and no hamburger that could be delivered to your door with the touch of a button. If you could not starve, lose a toe to frostbite, or die during childbirth, you were doing pretty well.

    Right now you've probably never had to deal with hunger - even those under the poverty line can sustain a nutritionally decent diet (albeit an insanely boring one) in the developed world, your life expectancy is somewhere between 75 and 90, the water you drink is clean, there are no soldiers looking to skin you to death, and you're lying on a fluffy mattress stuffing popcorn into your face. If you're an average person, you probably have access to luxuries that were completely inaccessible just a few generations ago, and your working conditions are far better even if you find them boring.

    It's also worth pointing out that a lot of the suffering you might argue exists is preventable. You're not obligated to eat unhealthy foods, watch crummy netflix movies all day, have children (well, unless an old white dude decided otherwise), smoke, etc. The balance of individual choice vs. external influence is debatable, but certainly preferable to having no choice at all.

  • What's a philosophical (not overtly political) position that you hold?
  • Why could "getting you" not be a person's most important to-do item? Would Putin not benefit greatly from getting Zelensky? Would the person up for a promotion not benefit from sabotaging their competition? Would a drug lord not benefit if his competition accidentally slipped and fell and died? There are so many instances in which a person would very logically (not to mention emotionally) benefit from targeting you personally - that's basically the foundation of politics and resource distribution.

  • What's a philosophical (not overtly political) position that you hold?
  • You can also ask an adjacent question, which is whether we should attempt to continue to exist as a species. My personal take would be a hard no - I think it would be preferable to seek to end our species within the next few generations - but some would argue that we should attempt to colonize space and maximize our presence.

  • What's a philosophical (not overtly political) position that you hold?
  • The maximum level is the level at which a) the average sentient being of that generation can be expected to live a net positive life, b) the addition of another does not reduce the positivity of other lives, and c) the individual being itself would live a net positive life. What is considered a net positive is its own question since pleasure exceeding suffering is subjective, but there's a strong argument to be made that there is an increasing net negative, and that's not nearly limited to the climate change argument (in fact that's probably one of the weaker angles one can take).

    You can also go sliding scale, though you'd have to compete with the eugenics argument (which is possible), and say that some children are worth bringing into the world and others are not. For example, huge net negatives would be someone who sucks up so many resources that they make the average human life worse or someone whose circumstances make them far more likely to live a qualitatively poor life.

  • People who have a weekly/two week/monthly meal plan that never changes, how did you plan it out?

    Food is my #1 time suck and I'm honestly dying to get a consistent plan down, but it's terribly hard to make a plan that allows you to buy the same things every week and use up all the perishables.

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    TIL that Proctor & Gamble and Unilever actively sponsor Russian war efforts and are on the International Sponsors of War list.

    They own brands such as Pampers, Olay, Old Spice, Pantene, Oral B, Herbal Essences, Gilette, Dove, Hellmann's, Axe, Knorr, Magnum, Breyers, and Lipton, among others.

    See here: https://www.theguardian.com/business/2023/jul/03/unilever-named-international-sponsor-of-war-by-ukraine

    And here: https://sanctions.nazk.gov.ua/en/boycott/

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    Any single generation players here? What goals do you set for your sims?

    I think I'm in the heavy minority because I really dislike the whole having children thing (maybe that's me projecting lol). I'd rather focus on my adult sims and usually adopt an older child and then age them up to a teenager if I want a new character. I like starting from scratch in different neighborhoods and stuff, but it's hard to stay engaged with one specific sim for very long. You can only get divorced so many times ya know?

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