There was a post on lemmy.world/c/memes or something that posed the question

Straight men are you attracted to women or femininity

and a user responded (and i'm paraphrasing a bit here, but not by much)

I'm attracted to boobs and vagina, if a trans man is pre-transition i'll still fuck

Which obviously set off some red flags. The discussion drifted over to 196 and then moss responded by posting this:

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The whole thing lead to a post full of genital preference discourse and that's never fun.

Every thing I see Moss do pushes me further and further away from 196. Ever since that stupid fucking incident where they defended a user being blatantly chasery/transphobic to the point that Ada had to step in.

Their actions just scream incompetence, and I'm convinced they're a 16yo that got in way too deep with a community the size of 196