This is the first season to start after I moved to lemmy and I have been disappointed at how inconsistent the discussion posts have been, and have mostly stopped checking for them. I agree with others that discussion threads for every episode of every anime would become a lot of clutter, but I personally would not really engage if the discussion threads were preemptively trimmed down to just the most popular shows (I watch an episode of everything and I think it's fun to talk about the weird quirks of the shows no one really likes).

I feel like a decent compromise would be to have the bot stop posting if no one is engaging with the posts (maybe 2 posts in a row with no/low engagement means the bot drops the show?), with a weekly miscellaneous thread for anything that got dropped or somehow missed or people working through their backlogs or whatever else

I know I can be a bit bad about posting instead of just lurking (i'm sure others can relate lol), but if the discussion threads were consistent and predictable I would be much more inclined to push myself to do my part by posting some thoughts even if they seem trivial, to try and get some discussion going

What are some examples of dogmatism and extremism from the progressive side that you hope to avoid?

Like spaduf says, those "both sides" claims often come from the anti-queer folks, and while I want to give you the benefit of the doubt, it's difficult to tell what sort of community you're trying to cultivate.