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Found out my gf (30f) has been cheating on me for over 6 months
  • Most likely cut your losses here. At the very least a month of not seeing her and then re-evaluate.

    There is no trust and while I can't say it's unwarranted.... What does earning trust mean? Assuming you want this to work when has she done enough?

    IF your want to take the risk and take her back ... This can't hang over your relationship. You have to let it go and never speak of it again.

    By all means tell her it hurt you and that is a one time offer and you expect strict monogamy and honesty from now on before you forgive her. But when you DO to forgive her it has to be gone. Otherwise it will grow and fester and you will always be hesitant and she will always feel untrusted.

    If you are not prepared to do that let her go and set everyone involved free.

  • An AI Singer-Songwriter Just Debuted Her Original Song—And The Responses Are Just Brutal
  • Just looking at the picture this already seems like amateur work.

    As for the music being ... Yes it's pretty flat and unexciting. Realistically lots of today's music is already a remix of a remix and honestly... quite generic. Bands have been cast for looks for a long time, autotune has been here for ages, and with a better effort in the voice department I don't see AI artists being far off. I don't think they will ever completely replace artists here, especially since live events really are a thing of their own but.. eh

  • The stainless steel body of Tesla's Cybertruck is reportedly leading to issues with gaps in between the panels
  • Worked for a car manufacturer doing statistical analysis on gap & flushness all over the exterior... And the door gaps are a bitch to get right. Probably the most difficult ones over the whole car. All the manufacturers struggle with this to a degree. This is also the one place where part quality is probably most critical.

    The other gaps are usually handled by designing the angles in a beneficial way etc. When they show up in a bigger way it's almost always bad design.

  • Bethesda Is Responding to Negative Reviews of Starfield on Steam
  • Luckily only tried it once on gamepass. For sure has some interesting parts to it (I did like the ship designer) but it hit me on the second location I explored - this is pretty much a Skyrim reskin. The are randomised dungeons everywhere for no goddamn reason whatsoever, my goddamn spaceship can only fit like 5 suits.... alright. Been there, done that, I'm out.

    Looking for a re-release in 5 yrs with all the add-ons and mods, maybe I will get it then.

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    What irritates you the most with your own language?
  • I did not know that. Very interesting, thanks. Not so fun fact: Switzerland, although German speaking, does not use the comma. Also their keyboard Layout is all over the place with German French and Italian influences.

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    What irritates you the most with your own language?
  • German: I hate that we use comma as a decimal separator. Makes working with international documents a hassle, my numpad on pc makes a comma so I cannot even type a date.....we like to complain about us imperial units as much as anyone but our comma is almost as stupid!

  • Leaked Email Shows Elon Musk Demanding "Sub 10 Micron Accuracy​” Cybertruck Parts
  • If you can even get something like +/-3 or 4 mm with say a cpk of 1,33 you are doing pretty well for a whole body.

    It's probably a pr stunt. If this is real then they are doomed because they have not yet understood that you need to compensate tolerances and design a robust assembly that can handle this. If you are trying to get crazy high part precision you have not understood how big scale manufacturing works. This is why the Japanese are often so highly regarded in this and might be the true art of car (or large scale) engineering.

  • What's some really unpopular opinion you have?
  • To put it bluntly: It’s not women’s job to fix men

    Is that so? Surely you expect men to help with the goals of feminism, no?

    Imagine saying the same thing in reverse: unequal payment for women because they are not forceful enough to push for more? Sad but what can you do - it's not men's job to fix women after all.

    If people really think that, then screw this 'f* you, I got mine ' version of feminism and push for a better life for everyone. This is such a shortsighted way to live and not even try to look beyond your own horizon.

  • What's some really unpopular opinion you have?
  • I hear that sentiment quite a bit, can you elaborate?

    Seems to me that if you drive it to the extreme the same could be said for existing on earth.

    Also surely 'immoral' has gradations that we can push. Child slavery is another level when compared to even screwing the working class out of money.

  • What's some really unpopular opinion you have?
  • IP has many many flaws, have to disagree with you on the r&d though. That simply costs upfront money and we don't do a lot of it anymore anyways.

    To some degree companies don't even patent their stuff, so that they don't have to publish the inner workings for their competitors. This is especially a problem with china since they pretty notoriously don't give a damn about patents and just copy it anyway. Your Shenzhen example makes no sense to me.

    There is enough about ip to dislike anyways:

    • It is mainly used as a way to sue each other in the corporate world. This is why they patent everything usually.

    • Patents don't even really have to explain how the technique works (or if it really works) in much detail.

    • there is little to no recourse if the patent office does not want to grant your patent. On the other hand if they feel like it, they can grant complete shit.

    • patents are prohibitively expensive for private people, in granting and upkeep.

  • One week after the release, how are you enjoying the game? Is it everything you hoped it would be?
  • Kinda true about the bugs, unfortunately though no longer reserved for Bethesda games. Played d4 a few days after launch and damn we encountered bugs left and right.

    At least no forced online so restarting and or reloading is pretty easy. I'm kinda fine with annoying but not game breaking bugs on such a solid base.

  • Women in China are telling each other to bring their boyfriends to see 'Barbie' — and to use it as a litmus test for their thoughts on feminism and patriarchy
  • If someone goes on some misogynistic rant then no, you should not date them.

    Also if someone needs to test you and wants to goad someone into anything 'as a test' then you should not date them either.

    Both the tester and the testee should not be in a relationship and need to do some growing up.

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