This is what I'm using and it's perfect for my use case. Tried more elaborate setups and it just wasn't worth it. I also use it with my household over LAN.

I started a Crucial 2 server with friends last month and I still haven't gotten bored. As a modpack conducive to roleplay and worldbuilding I'm very happy with it. That's something I like about modded Minecraft - that even the same modpack can appeal to so many playstyles.

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