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  • Agreed, but I think it's important to note that that isn't because of a shortcoming of Linux, it's because those companies are incentivized to support platforms that are more suitable for enabling massive profits, that's what it seems like to me anyways.

  • House is such a great show
  • Uh kind of but not in the way that I think you mean. The actual censorship crowd is very much in power in the USA and many other places. Hence executive orders trying to "censor" trans people from existence and take control of any and all institutions that go against the party, in part in order to control their speech.

  • House is such a great show
  • Why do you say that? And which generation?

  • I’m a Federal Worker. You Have No Idea the Irreversible Damage Elon Musk Is Doing.
  • Do you know about Curtis Yarvin and the so-called "network state" plan they are in the late stages of realizing? I don't think BRICS is the endgame of the tech oligarchy.

  • Is it moral to vandalize Teslas?
  • Uhh idk if you have noticed but the spiritual successor to the Nazi party is gaining steam, and the govt has been swallowing and parroting Israeli propaganda for years. It's not exactly looking great.

  • How do you approach a group of people with romantic intent for only one?
  • I do not claim to know what "most people" think and I don't believe that you have that knowledge either. If you would like to challenge that belief please come with receipts this time, instead of making broad generalizing statements that may seem true to you, when clearly you are biased (not that I'm not, but that's why I'm not saying shit about what "most people" think).

    I agree that you should not be pretending or feigning interest. You should be trying to genuinely find areas of common interest.

    How is that at all compatible with the original advice given, which in your own words is the "absolute basics" of approaching and talking to strangers? This is bad advice in my mind and you haven't said anything to the contrary that is convincing.

    Also I would not take your advice on how to talk to people because you're coming off super patronizing to me.

  • How do you approach a group of people with romantic intent for only one?
  • Let's say I walk straight up to them and say "I saw you and you sparked my interest, and I'd like to get to know you better."

    Except that's not what we're talking about, this piece of advice specifically advises that you hide your intentions.

    OK, well what comes next? How do you get to know someone (total stranger) better? It's going to involve talking about random stuff until (hopefully) you both end up feeling comfortable with each other.

    I don't know about you but I don't talk about "random stuff", I talk about things that are important to me and that I actually want to talk about, because that will actually tell me if i feel comfortable with someone and I want to get to know them better.

    The other thing is about that first part ("I saw you/wanna get to know you") is heavily implied by you walking over and saying hello.

    Actually it's not, because in the situation we're actually talking about you're approaching a group of people and pretending to be interested in what they're talking about until you get "an in" with the person you're actually interested in. That's lying.

  • How do you approach a group of people with romantic intent for only one?
  • I believe in direct communication, as opposed to playing games. Maybe that's why I don't go to a lot of parties or bars etc. it's hard to talk when there's so much going on. I have a lot of sensitivity to sensory overwhelm so that doesn't help. I don't believe in "small talk" as you're using it here, I.e. to mean talking for the sake of talking and not about what you actually want to talk about. You're right that it's low stakes but it's basically a mini lie, and I also value vulnerability and emotional honesty very highly.

  • How do you approach a group of people with romantic intent for only one?
  • Maybe for you, but I don't appreciate when people lead me on like that, especially intentionally.

  • "Today"= 18 Months Ago
  • The strongest supporter of labor unions in the US....

    This made me actually LOL. That's an insanely low bar and only true if you are only picking between the two parties that share power.

  • The government doesn't use SQL
  • That's not the database they mean I fear :(

  • How do you approach a group of people with romantic intent for only one?
  • Eh this feels manipulative and they might notice that. Feels like pick-up artist shit because you arent actually interested in the conversation or the other people and you're just faking it because your already established intention is to talk to one person specifically, for romantic/sexual reasons

  • How can I Legally Mess with ICE? [FALLBROOK: SIDE OF THE 395 ON RAINBOW GLEN, ~~ACTIVE~~ ICE RAID]
  • "Every time I have a problem, I just throw a Molotov cocktail, and then I have a different problem!"

    • Jason (The Good Place)
  • Why would'nt this work?
  • How does that work?

  • What the hell, Yeezy?!?
  • What browser? On Firefox mobile it shows an infinity symbol after 100

  • Ye's website is selling swastika shirts after boosting its profile with Super Bowl ad
  • This is basically undeniable, but what really makes me sad is the artists who don't seem to be Nazis or even right wing but still support this dude and stand up for him because he's been so influential on many of them.

  • Might be fun idk
  • I'm not OP but I dislike football because it's got a huge risk of TBI for the players, like way more than most sports, even with the helmets. Also it feels really nationalistic and militarized

  • (season 8-10 spoilers) I just realized something about Susan and Finn

    When Susan's implant gets activated and she grabs Finn and says "target acquired" it's because that was her original mission as revealed in the Islands mini series. I hadn't made the connection until my, like, 25-30th watch or so lol. I guess I just assumed it was because he's the only other human around. Did everyone already know this and I'm just super slow?

    Edit: forgot to mention the episode, its Preboot in S8

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    Why is the sky purple in the reflection of my friend's glasses?

    They're just regular (prescription) glasses. The sky looks normal through them. What's the deal?

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    [Solved][underground hip hop]

    Hint: highly philosophical track from a widely-beloved-in-his-hometown artist from Midwest US who passed away from an overdose a decade or more ago

    Answer: >!spoiler (Eyedea and Abilities - Powdered Water too (Part 1))!<

    Additional pics (using different styles of same generator):

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    Does anyone know of a decent replacement for Sunkist Diet Lemonade soda (which was taken off the shelves maybe a decade ago)?

    It was a sparkling lemonade/soda with zero sugar or calories, but still tasted sweet enough and highly refreshing when cold. Would also accept a replacement for the non-diet version, which in my region of the US was unavailable even before they got rid of the diet version.

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