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  • Disappointing and unproductive.

    Imagine, you are a top and you are looking for a bottom but the bottoms hide their bottom-ness because they get shit for it.

    Praise bottoms and enjoy the fruits of a healing environment.

    Of course, there are better reasons to not be a bigot but self-interest should be a convincing one.

  • It feels that way, yeah. But there are many of these ads, so I doubt it is "real". So i don't think that there is a real woman that is being abused here.

    While clearly there is someone with a toxic mindset who could be abusing people around them.

  • Can we also talk about the sexism in there?

    1. Very different building
    2. Sexism

    "Why would your wife have to do that?" Comes to my mind when seeing this slop.

    I am not against roles in a relationship but blaming the other person publicly like that is ... weird and as an ad, it feels very sexist.

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  • Because the creator is clueless. Telegram with someone who encrypts their /home??? Telegram is hiding the encrypted chat from the average user. That is literally all the reason I need to avoid it.

    And they place bitcoin of all things in the tor network and full disk encryption tier... bitcoin... where everything is traceable and which is more mainstream than /home encryption.

  • You are misunderstanding my point.

    My point is that letting someone handle certain things and even listening to their advice is not hierarchical.

    So the person written the comment doesn't need a hierarchy to let their coworker handle organisational tasks nor do they need it to listening to their coworker's advice.

    So just because they like it that way, doesn't mean they like the hierarchy nor that they want it, but rather that they like some tasks more than others and acknowledge expertise.

    I am not saying that there is no Hierarchy. I just don't think they want it, just because they like other elements in their cooperation.

  • I just want to point out that trusting in someone's competency and leaving certain work for them as you think they are better suited for the work... that is just no Hierarchy.

    Let's say, we have a man and a woman. They have babies and the babies seem to be able to fall asleep better to the song of the man's deeper voice. The woman decides that she will let her husband put the children to sleep if possible. Did the woman submit to the hierarchy and her husband, or is she just efficient?

  • The response is easy and obvious.

    Femdom is not a real hierarchy. It is a role play. That is why there is aftercare and stuff. To separate daily life and reality from role play.

    Like there should be a safe word that ends the role play. There is no "nvm let's not" button in a real hierarchy.

  • The problem is not the detection system or that people don't believe it.

    The problem is that people don't seem to understand the utility of behaving like something is true while "knowing" it is not true.

    E.g. let's say, I "know" the gun is not loaded, should I point the gun at a friend and pull the trigger? No.

    Verifying information before acting in a way that would put people in danger, is worth wasting time for.