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Shellofbiomatter

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  • How easily do you trust people?

  • Idk, I've developed a system to determine how much i can trust each individual.

    Over time i observe the behavioral patterns of an individual to somewhat determine what's their strong side or what interests they have. Based on that i can figure out how much i can trust them and with what tasks.

    If it's something they're good at/interested in and they have something to gain from it and the overall mistake rate is low. I can trust them fully.

    Now if it's something they're not that interested in, theres nothing to gain from it and they have a high mistake rate. Then i cant really trust them with said task.

    Of course it's not full proof, anomalies/surprises can happen, but those shouldn't be taken into account due to very low chance of happening.

  • How introverted are you?

  • A little too much probably. I can go on for weeks to months with absolute barest minimal of human contact. There have been times i barely utter few words over the course of days.

    Like the random discussions here are completely enough to sustain that aspect of humanity indefinitely.

    I'm not even sure i have ever reached to a point where I start to crave human contact

  • Young People Turn to AI for Mental Health Support - Neuroscience News

  • Yeah I've seen those news as well. That's a rather interesting development of events. Most definitely have to keep an eye on that one. What will the LLM companies do now as those do spew out bullshit rather often.

  • Is there a way to geht honest feedback on how you behave?

  • Generally i get along fine with dogs, but Chihuahuas. There has been only one single dog who has tried to bite me and it was a Chihuahua. He/she couldn't get through my sneakers and i was more worried over trying to avoid stepping on it.

  • Nearly 160 sick with flu at US air force base after Hegseth ends mandatory vaccines

  • Young People Turn to AI for Mental Health Support - Neuroscience News

  • Well it is free, easiliy accessible basically everywhere and it can give an impression of helping you. That's kinda hard to beat.

    Not that I'm endorsing using ChatGPT as a therapist, i can just see the appeal of it.

    Maybe having a fancy chatbot trained and supervised by actual mental health professionals be a nice alternative.

  • If you are coming from Reddit: YSK that Lemmy and Piefed have no karma. Don't delete your posts.

  • That's an impossible standard to achieve. Best one can do is become neutral, whatever benefits they bring balances out the burden of dealing with them.

  • We live in the future!

  • Fake money probably, it allows me to easily buy drugs from online.

  • Growth

  • I apologize in advance if it gets too depressive or over sharing. I've noticed over the years that just writing things down can be kinda helpful in at least articulating and getting a better understanding of my own mental processes.

    Fair, yeah i wouldn't hate another individual over something that simple aka gay man not wanting to fuck woman. It's rather easy to accept other individuals than oneself. It's so much more easier to hate oneself and beat oneself up, even if it's completely irrational. It's something that can be done, even if detrimental, but it gives at least some form of an illusion over having control over it.Like not remembering to initiate more or being too tired and not pushing through it or forgetting actions that make the partner feel wanted or the equipment being already fully primed and ready to go, but the mind not being there. If i fail those, it's my fault. I have to do better and try harder. Maybe if i keep searching for long enough i will eventually find a cure or a fix.Accepting asexuality seems like giving up without a fight, like surrendering.

    While love and intimacy might be rather complicated concepts for me, as I've understood yes those are possible without sex, but once again from a practical perspective overwhelming majority of people do see sex as the main distinction between friendship and a relationship. So the lack of drive or desire is going to be a rather huge disadvantage.Yes i know and been told that I'm not supposed to "date" half the population, so the disadvantage shouldnt matter, but i never did manage to figure out what's supposed to be the driving force beyond practicality then.

    On the broader complaints part. Fair, probably a bad example as i tried to show the effect of not feeling wanted and the burden of being the one who disproportionately has to initiate, while taking it from a too biased perspective and not properly knowing the background details, though it still does hit rather close to home being at the opposite end of it.

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  • Training in general, but specifically resistance training.

    It's one of those things that heavily depends on me and minimally on just luck. I have to be honest towards myself, analyze my behavior, regulate it or overcome different aspects of day to day life and push myself. Seeing it paying off is rather good as well.

    Oddly I've found lifting works kinda like mindfulness meditation. I have to focus on my body and on the moment, kinda like be present or the weight will crush or injur me.

  • What's one very obscure and strange fact that you probably can't get people to admit its true?

  • You can read this one, not arguing specifically, more of a just back and forth discussion.Though yeah pelvic floor training for all genders will be rather useful for holding back orgasm for men and avoiding erectile issues down the line and stronger grip for women. Added bonus for women, some of them are capable of having a coregasm aka having an orgasm while bracing or training core muscles.

    Id "argue" that there's the mental refactory period as well, which cant be altered by pelvic floor muscle training.

    I can easily hold back busting a nut with those muscles, but if i do that then the mental refactory period still kicks in and it's going to be hard to maintain erection, even with boner pills.

  • What's your memory like?

  • Rather problematic. I probably have SDAM(severly deficient autobiographical memory) so there is no lived through part of memory. "Making memories" literally doesn't work for me. There is only factual information saved, just a long black and white list in a notebook, but that one is scrambled by ADHD. So my memory is just a pile of keywords thrown on the ground.

    The only reliable memory type is just muscle memory.

  • Growth

  • But there is, it causes problems and puts unproportionaly much pressure on the other side. Aka the other side needs to do the initiating 99% of the times, which creates the feeling of not being wanted. Coupled with the constant rejection as well isn't that good on self esteem either.

    Like in relationships posts which get more popular, there are always guys who complain how they're tired from constantly initiating and don't feel wanted, which leads to them just giving up all together.

  • Where on a corner sofa do you prefer to sit and why?

  • On one of the edge seats. Usually on the right side, when facing the couch, because because phone charger is there and the left edge seat is overwhelmed by clutter.

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  • So how much did they get paid?

  • Growth

  • Yes i kinda dislike it as it is a source of problems and just accepting it wouldn't really solve any issues.

    Sadly I've been trying to fix it for years, problems probably started or at least become noticable over a decade ago. By now i have already exhausted approved medical and physical means in trying to fix it, even started replacement therapy eventually as test levels were on the low end even despite doing as much as possible to boost those.

    While it has had rather good outcome on overall physical and mental health, it hasn't had any effect on libido.

    Haven't yet delved into balck market or anabolic steroids territory, yet and of course therapy is still left, but that's rather expensive and social stigma is kinda strong on that subject. Especially for a guy who seemingly shouldn't have any issues regarding it.

  • Growth

  • Fair, reactively getting turned on kinda fits under outside influence part. Though cant tell anything about the bond/connection aspect, as thats way too vague and complicated for me.