I wouldn't say they're good people, just because they're immigrants. They're people like any other, there are good hardworking people amongst them and lazy slobs, but they're all unfairly exploited.
Of course depending in local laws, but in general it shouldn't be possible to exploit anyone. Regardless of their origin or what it says in their passport.
Employee protection laws should apply to everyone equally in a given county regardless of persons nationality.
My father died when i was around 8, so can't remember much about him. In addition i don't really see the point or reason to put up the charade of celebrating holidays either.
So it's just another day.
I wouldn't say an odd concept, it's completely normal for me. Rather decent way to spend time, though not specifically reading a book, but whatever alternative each individual prefers.
But yeah there are way too many people who wouldn't consider that as spending time together.
TLDR as the subsequent text came way too long: Thanks to bad eyesight, there's hope that one day. I will be big(muscular) enough.
LONG VERSION/EXPLANATION:
I generally don't really comment on these type of hopeful or positive posts. My mindset is way too dark for it and I don't really want to pull the overall mood down with it in a positive setting.
Though over the course of few last weeks to months I've noticed one positive thing and think that ray of sunshine/small plant should be cultivated and nurtured instead of crushed like i usually do with thought patterns.
I do probably have some degree of body dismorphia/body image issues, luckily nothing severe.
I've been working out 4½ years by now. 3½ of those has been with ever increasing intensity and frequency, up to 7 days a week by now and by now it consuming rather big part of my life.
In addition i have glasses, -2 vision so i cant see clearly that far, but i wear those only when absolutely necessary aka need to see far accurately. Far meaning like a phone screen on the ground. If i straighten my arms while holding a phone, i can no longer see whats written here.
Now over the course of last few months I've noticed that if I'm working out and stand far away enough from the mirror. My subconscious mind cannot recognize me, which means the body image issues don't work and looking at "myself" as a stranger/other person. I am getting adequately muscular. Of course it turns off as soon as i step closer and recognize myself again.
Yeah it has its benefits, but it kinda disables one of the biggest aspects of human nature. The community, connection, enjoyment from interaction part.
We're supposed to be social animals.
Yes that aspect is still somewhere there, but it's so weak and rare that it might as well not exist.
In trying to fix said imperfections. Maybe there is a way to fix or improve those flaws. Accepting seems like not even trying to fix those imperfections
I assume yeah, but as i cant see myself from the outside perspective so it's just a guess.
I do know i avoid eye contact and generally wear pretty much the same clothes for years. Of course i wash those, i just have multiple pairs of the exact same clothes.
So that might stand out on repeated occasions.
There's a constant fidgeting as well which might stand out.
On a positive note, over the years I've managed to implement a solid training and dieting routine so by now i stand out that way as well.
Well obviously, since as far back as i can remember I've always been the odd one out, undiagnosed and unmanaged auDHD. Fitting in or not being odd one out wasn't even a possibility.
Though depending on perspective, i was actually the normal one, everyone else were the odd ones. Which probably was kinda helpful actually as i didn't even try to fit in which reduced pressure a lot.
I'll download that as well then. Thank you.