Currently I use 'Jerboa for Lemmy' It has yet to fail me but that is the usual default app. If anyone has any information of a better app I am willing to try another :3

INFO is my take on this, you are posting from your perspective but also letting lose on some detail (I am sure its because of work/meeting perspective) But the way things are going over what I have read you are painting your flatmate rather bit too chaotic and spazzy. Think it needs more detail to determin if and or not AITA in my opinion.

This is true, but also from what I can tell there is a bit of lag when it comes to lemmy from time to time, I am unsure if that is browser related or just my computer is dumb but meh, can confirm its the delay between service communications which to be expected.

Very fair enough, It was more of a informative response. Lately a giant jump in userbase increase among various federated systems, so information somewhere is always a good thing :)

Because there is a seperate federated few communities already existed out there for LGBTQ communities. It might not be on the .world systems but a few communities out there use their own systems and community bunch. Nomatter where your home account is, you can access, see and post on the others. Just know it does take some time for access in some communities as some are rather cautious.