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MayvisDelacour

@ MayvisDelacour @lemmy.world

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3 yr. ago

  • Want to start dating but it'll probably hurt my best friend who I'm not romantically interested in.

  • That's not something I was ever considering. I'm definitely monogamous, and attracted to the opposite gender yes. While I know I can still love my friend and have a romantic partner, I couldn't still share a bed or cuddle without feeling like it was cheating. We're going to have to create boundaries, it was hard for me to think about and will be difficult to implement but it's the right thing to do. Thanks for the response.

  • Want to start dating but it'll probably hurt my best friend who I'm not romantically interested in.

  • All very valid, I think you've hit the nail on the head. I just feel terrible and upset about creating this situation. I, perhaps we, did let the lines blur, I don't blame either one of us for it. Convenience and familiarity dropped our guard. We were there for each other when we needed it but in hindsight it was foolish to let things go past physical barriers or maybe even emotionally without considering the future. At the time they moved in it was supposed to be temporary, I did miss that detail in my post. That's no longer the case but we never revisited the topic of where things stand. It's obvious to me now that I must say something. Thanks for your response.

  • Want to start dating but it'll probably hurt my best friend who I'm not romantically interested in.

  • I guess I am a bit of a coward. I do appreciate the comment. It's a good point.

  • Want to start dating but it'll probably hurt my best friend who I'm not romantically interested in.

  • Yeah, I've thought about it. Things would definitely have to change before I started dating. I think what I didn't consider is how long it might take to make those changes. That I couldn't just jump into it now that I'm feeling ready.

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    MayvisDelacour @lemmy.world

    Want to start dating but it'll probably hurt my best friend who I'm not romantically interested in.

  • Har-monica

  • Monica has come a long way, hate to see all the grief she still gets. I mean it takes two to cheat you know but does anyone give Bill shit? Not really.

  • Florida Woman Charged With Posing as Homeschooler to Prey on Boy

  • Yeah I did too, it tracks since she gave her birth year as 2009 to cops when caught stealing from a store, when investigated she was actually born in 2001. On a side note, God damn people born in the 2000s are becoming adults? When did I get so old? Make it stop!

  • GOP Melts Down As Dick Durbin Uses Their Tactics For Advancing Biden Judges

  • Hear fuckin hear my friend! It's about damn time!

  • 2nd police officer acquitted in death of Elijah McClain, who was put in a neck hold, given ketamine

  • Q

  • words search

  • Angel Barbarian

  • Bud Light brewer is still struggling to sell the beer in North America over trans promotion backlash

  • Haha came here thinking the same thing. I actually liked their endorsement for that trans person but I'd never switch to fuckin bud lite. Ew.

  • Ok Lemmy Rorschach test time. Tell me what you see.

  • Some sort of mall ninja neckbeard gauntlet knife

  • Neo-Nazis walk free from court, spared further jail time over attack on Victorian hikers

  • They spouted homophobic and anti-Semitic slurs and walked off.

    Chances of rehabilitation are good huh?

  • Trees @lemmy.world
    MayvisDelacour @lemmy.world

    I have tried getting high quite a few times now with different products and it always ends the same, poorly. Advice?

  • Anon is slowly becoming a cowboy

  • I didn't get to play it when it came out but now we're talking about it, I felt like the whole game was over when Arthur died. I just lost interest and hated playing as John because I had no attachment to his wife or child and was very much more interested in continuing my life of crime but the story basically forces you into the farming life and if I was gonna be a farmer I'd play Stardew Valley.

  • YouTube cracking on ad blockers.

  • Does that boot taste good or something?

  • YouTube cracking on ad blockers.

  • I ran into the same problem. Uninstalling and trying again without touching any of the options for setup worked instead of going in and messing with the toggles. I hope it helps. I would suggest you look for a Lemmy uhh... What do we call them? Subreddit? I mean they are on the other site too and perhaps you can get assistance there if you're still having issues

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  • Sure but why add to the problem? Why not carve out your own little slice and help the situation? Probably not going to hurt anything if you stop using pesticides and feed the bees where you can.

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  • I only mow at the last possible second to not get a fine, has been working really well for my yard. I have seen flowers, corn, and a beautiful assortment of creepers and clovers start taking over the sterile grass. My neighbors neighbor seems to get butthurt. They take care of my direct neighbors yard whom I share a chain link fence with, she loves my vines with the flowers and strange gourds that wind around the fence. Neither of us planted it but the people who tend her yard destroy it 😭if we just let everything happen naturally some very cool things start to crop up. I've seen some absolutely massive grasshoppers and a bunch of praying mantis as well. My bee hotel never attracts anything but I've seen plenty of bees about which makes me happy.

  • A new smartphone again? Rethink unhealthy culture of frequent upgrades

  • I was skimming the comments just for this, I'm baffled by nobody else seeing what I saw! Though I see a butt. Why aren't people mentioning that weird image?

  • Payday 3's roadmap promises four DLC drops in the first year

  • Yep, a disgusting habit the big gaming studios have gotten into. At this point there's no reason to get games like these as soon as they drop. Better to wait like a year or so for the collection to come out for 20 bucks. I'm finally getting bl3 just now and I'm sure my experience will be somewhat improved having all the bug fixes and updates. It really is a shame but I for one don't ever see myself paying 60 dollars for a game just to be sucker punched with the rest of it released as dlc. It's so unfair and they should be losing sleep at night. Sorry for the rant.

  • Music @lemmy.world
    MayvisDelacour @lemmy.world

    Local band I heard an interview for, I love it! Give it a try full interview in comments.