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When dating, "Just be confident" is just bad advice if you ask me.
  • I think it's been conflated with simply "having self-esteem". So many guys (and a few women), are just so meek and weird about flirting or even just having casual conversations with the opposite sex. Like they see themselves as a social burden, but they just have to approach and give weird compliments anyway.

    Like, you've seen sorta fugly people with attractive partners, right? Or two not-so attractive people dating? Someone had to make a move, and those people had self-esteem / confidence.

    Confidence isn't just reserved for the physically attractive. It's ok to value other aspects of yourself and derive your self-worth from that.

    If you're bothering people who turned you down already, or you're too unaware to notice, then that's a different problem altogether. I've seen plenty of guys with zero confidence linger in a convo they thought was going somewhere.

  • After Raids, NYPD Denied Student Protesters Water and Food in Jail (also there were beatings)
  • They put a bunch of whiny, entitled shits in jail.

    "Omg these cells are dirty" - yea, don't go to jail, it's dirty.

    "Omg they put me in solitary for three hours" - yea, shut the fuck up when you're in jail. Sometimes that's for your own protection.

    "Omg they beat me while I was in jail" - again, shut the fuck up and quit arguing with guards. You're in jail.

  • California police flatten pro-Palestinian camp at UCLA, arrest protesters
  • Their strategy is being performative, whiny shits for tiktok videos. They have no clue what they're talking about, or the context for the current situation. Just more terminally online lefties that would rather camp out than go to class.

    The nation was already discussing Israel-Palestine, these people are just being self-indulgent and making it about themselves. They don't give a shit about Palestinians unless it's trending.

  • Senior Democrat calls for arrests of ‘leftwing fascists’ urging Gaza ceasefire | The Guardian
  • Are Zionists disrupting a lot of learning institutions?

    And it's not about pro-israel VS. Pro-palestine. The issue is much more nuanced. You people realize a terrorist organization is the representative government of Palestine, right? They chant "death to america" and their founding charter calls for the eradication of all jews. They still have, and are probably still torturing and raping hostages. You're cheering for the scum of the earth.

    Both sides have done shitty things, but things will never get better as long as Hamas controls the territory. They have no interest in peace.

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