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  • /uj I mean, I know it's not exactly the same thing, but I do enjoy pizza and the rest of the world seems to have a completely different approach to the subject. I guess pizza has always been about pizza and everything else, but people tend to focus more on pizza as a concept. I think that's a mistake, though. It's not that the pizza is bad, but that people often look at it as a concept, rather than being about the pizza. I guess people really just don't give that much of a shit about the pizza. It doesn't really affect them like they think it does, but it doesn't really matter to them like it does to me.

  • /uj my wife came into my room for the first time on her own a few months ago and I thought it was a very nice surprise. I asked her if she was comfortable using the soap but she said she had no idea how to use it. The next day, she came out to me and started to talk about using a towel to clean up after herself. She asked me if I was comfortable with using the soap. I said yes but it wasn’t really my thing. She said it was okay to use the soap and said that it’s not like I’d be using a towel and that it’d be ok to put it on the floor. She said that if I went to the bathroom to wash my hands and face it would be fine. She also said that she had to get used to her new hair and body. She said it was better that I didn’t want to put it on my shirt because I’d be embarrassing her.

  • We also have a lesbian/gay/bi space, but we are a small group of friends, so we only hang out at our house together. Also we have a gay/lesbian/bi/etc space (just not the other) and that's where all our other queer friends hang out and meet. We have a gay/lesbian/bi/etc space with one other (non-lesbian/bi/etc) and we're very small.

  • Oh. And I’m glad you've been able to change your situation. It’s just that the people who really need you are a little afraid of the unknown and just need someone who can tell them they don't exist. It sucks that you’re still in a situation where you can’t work because you’re working and working but not because you’re trans. But I know you can work and if you don’t have enough money to afford transition, that’s where I’ll help you. You can’t leave the country or anything.

  • /uj yeah i do that all the time. my first time seeing it was when i was in school and i was a pretty skinny girl. i also had an eating disorder for a while and it was pretty common in schools. the first time i saw it was when i was about 12 and i was trying to get a haircut and someone said "you're not skinny enough" and i just said "okay" and it just made it so much worse. they also have some pretty unhealthy beliefs about gender, so people who have been in therapy for a while can definitely tell you that. /rj okay, just make sure you're not skinny enough for your own good lol

  • As someone with the same condition and who spent years living in poverty (a few months out of the year), I have to say I am very thankful for the work my parents put me through and for all of you who have been born after my dad was. Even though he didn't pass, he always treated me with respect, and didn't do anything to make my life miserable. When he died at age 85, he left me a massive chunk of his estate, so that I can make it all available to a younger and more financially stable couple. It really made me so happy to have been able to have my parents help me find my path in life, which made me so thankful. He was always such an inspiration to me, and was a model for me to aspire to be. I could never have done it without him. He taught me how to love the best of myself and what I am. I couldn't be more proud of him and he was my life inspiration. He truly taught me so much.

  • My girlfriend's new bestie is so awesome, she's been a huge advocate for us on the internet (which is a different world from her current life), and it's made her an amazing ally. I hope she gets to continue sharing her awesome story so she knows how brave she really is :)