LadyButterfly she/her @ LadyButterfly @piefed.blahaj.zone

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I hate watched the last season. I don't have netflix atm but I'll watch it when I next get it. I honestly don't know if she knows we hate watch

There's a huge amount of women plus Trump's comments about women. It makes sense to believe them

I didn't think I was neurospicy until I was late in my 30s. There's loads of conditions it's always worth spending a few minutes looking at symptoms in adults.

I love autumn! It's not too cold, it's not bright sunlight and I love chunky knits and fallen leaves

Abusers generally back up other abusers IME. And so they maintain the narrative of "the women made it up" cos it suits them

You're welcome Sideways! Love to make people smile

That sounds lovely

Go on... unzips

Yep divide and conquer

Your friend has told you a very unusual set of circumstances that sounds awful. Has he had as many women accused him of abuse as Trump has?

Now that's a name

Oh God that's true. You really see who your friends are when things get rocky

I went to an all girl's school which was fucking awful, nasty environment. Disordered eating was a way of life and I honestly believed it was normal to purge after eating and restrict food intake.

You deserve a standing ovation to this comment. We are conditioned to believe women are dramatic, oversensitive liars...but overall we aren't. You've got a very diverse perspective because you know what it's like to be seen as a boy, and also live your life as a woman.

You make an excellent point about being thrown into the deep end when you revealed that you're a woman. We generally get warned by other women gradually as we grow up, and gradually get more experiences as we get more independence. There's a big difference between going to a kids party age 8 to going to a nightclub as a teenager, but usually we gradually build up as we grow. Trans women can be thrown into the lion's den with no training, and left to fend for themselves. I'm really sorry you had those experiences.

I'd follow that comm if it had activity

Hopper on Stranger Things for me. Live forever!

You can't reason someone out of a position reasoning didn't lead them to in the first place

Ah that's an interesting change.

If you're vulnerable, different or a member of certain groups people will just go for you. Colleagues, managers, people in the street... they'll go for you, and most people will let them

That's great! Family is a lifetime bond. What are you going to crochet?