I'm a skinny guy and this has never been the case, even in a California king it's not so big everyone can sprawl out and not touch (dog instead of cat).
Every time I'm on Lemmy someone scoffs at many times the most I've ever made in a year. I make about 30-35k a year. 😂
I don't care if it's gay or straight, it's not attractive to me personally, so I just avoid it and move on. 🤷
Weak