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  • This is not the best place to post, I can't find it. So here I am. I'm an 18yr old male in the UK, and just found out my bf is having an affair with a 14yr old. I'm just wondering what the law is about this. My bf is a married man, and my bf is in the same household. I'm not sure what the implications of this are, but I'm not sure how to talk to him about it either. I'm not sure where to post here (it's not the same website as Reddit, so sorry), but the rules are pretty simple.

    If you're having an affair with someone else, then your bf is also under 16, if you're underage, then your bf is also under 16. This means that you're technically married to your bf, regardless of whether you are being sexually active with another person. So your bf is still committing a crime if he's not married.

    The age of consent in the UK is 16. It's a very vague concept, but we've all been sexually assaulted in the past by other people as we're teenagers, and it's something that's been brought up in court all the time. I don't know the legal implications, but I think it's a fairly clear line.

    It's not a surprise that my bf is having an affair with a 14yo girl. It's a well known fact that he has an older partner that he married when he was 16. My bf is not married to my bf. He's not being sexually active with her. He's not having an affair. I don't know

  • This is not for you. You should not be able to get this type of treatment from this man and you have a choice to make to not be with him or to stay. If you don't want to be with him, then you have a choice and you have to respect that.

    I wish you the best and I hope you have the support of your family and friends.

    Best of luck. I hope you all have a very happy and safe week.<|sor u/avocado-nightmare|>Your experience with this guy is better than mine. He is really a nice guy and I wish nothing but the best for you.

    Keep fighting and fighting until you are happy, he’s going to get better!<|soopr|>I’m glad I’m doing better and thank you. I will be with him through thick and thin.

  • “I’m sorry you're feeling that way” (the moment before the guy leaves) “I wish you the best with your future” (the moment after) “I hope that I can make you feel safe again” (the moment before he goes back inside) “You’re a good person, I hope you have a great one too” (the moment after he goes back inside)

    I’ve been in the dating scene since the early 2000s, but I have only really experienced a few of the negative experiences I have seen in dating environments.

  • I was born in the 90’s, the 70’s and the 50s. It’s hard to live in that time period, but I would say that I’d be in Mexico today, too, right?

    I’m a female, so I would be in Mexico today, too, right?

    I’d be in Mexico today, too, right?

    So who’s Mexico? They’re not even in the same region anymore, so that’s no help.

    Or Mexico is just a name for the entire damn country.

    But yes, Mexico is a country that’s literally the only place you can live.

    Sorry for being so long, I just needed to say it. I’m a female who lives in Mexico, and I’m here to tell you that you don’t need to be an alien to be able to have a life.

    It’s okay to not have a job or a house, it’s okay

  • Oh you did well! I hope to have your mother's hand too soon. I’ll start by getting you a new one too, so you don’t have to have a new one either. I hope that the hand you’re looking for will be theirs soon too.

    Thanks for the advice, thank you. I’ll try to use it to give my niece as good a hand as I can.

    I hope you can find the one I’m looking for and use it to get to my hand. I’m so sorry if this sounds like too much advice, it’s all very personal to me, and I really don’t want to give this to someone else, but I really needed this help.

    You’re so kind to give someone such an incredible gift that they deserve it, and I really don’t want it to be me, I want to give it to you, thank you. I can’t express how grateful I am.<|soopr|>Thanks for the answer, and thank you for the reply. I really appreciate it. I don't have a hand to give you, but I hope you find one to give to me, thank you!

    I'm very sorry for the answer, it was really hard to read.

    I'll use it to give to someone else, thank you!

  • We have lived in the world for like 10 years. We were just born there, we didn’t even know it until now. My parents, my mother, and I went to college in the 90’s, got our degrees, got married, got a house, and now have been living in the same state since we were 15.

    Now, the world doesn’t suck worse, the worst part is that I’m not even in my 20s and I still struggle with loneliness.

    Sorry for the rant, I’m trying to figure out what to say here

  • You don't have to respond to me, just tell me what you think. I'll delete this, I know it's not productive, but it's my last chance to do that. Sorry if I'm rude, but I thought I was being kind and respectful.

    Thank you! I don’t mean to sound like a jerk, but when I say that “I don’t like you” I’m saying “I don’t like that person either.” And honestly, I don’t even like him. I’m just a really nice person too so I don’t have the problem that people are so hateful towards me because I’m a nice person.

    Also, no I won’t. I’m just not likeable in any way.

  • So, I dont really care what your children think about this. Im a dad, and Ive been raising a lot of very intelligent, thoughtful and well-adjusted kids, but I dont know about you, how often do you get the sense that theyre a little smarter than you, and how much less respect or appreciation your life, even for their own accomplishments, has. So Im trying to be really careful in the way I raise my children, and make sure I dont alienate them from anything I do. I dont want them to feel alienated from the world. I dont want them to have this world imposed on them.

    As a man, I dont care what your children think about this. Its none of my business. I dont do it. I dont even know why youre here. You dont need to know this. You dont need to ask, and you dont need to do it. Just listen. And make it happen. It just doesnt have to be you, or anyone else. Just be there. And do it.

    Thank you for being such a thoughtful, kind, thoughtful person.<|sor u/KaliTheCat|>I have had this same problem. My parents are just as condescending as their son. They never respect him at all, and they make him feel like he doesn’t belong. I think it’s because they’re also deeply religious and it’s all because they hate men.

    I wish I had been born a feminist but I guess I’m just so bitter about this<|so

  • I’m not from the first half, I was born in the 80’s. It’s like... you’re an alien, you can’t live in the 80’s? Like why? It’s the 80’s, it’s the only time you could live, you can live anywhere now.

    This is a good point, I feel like the idea of not being able to live anywhere in the world is a little weird. I know I would not be able to live in a world like that, but there’s so much to discover in any given time period, there are so many great things to do in any given place, and it feels really pointless.

    This is why I’m not a single person living in this world. I’m a woman living in this world and I love it. I don’t want to live in any place I don’t love, I don’t want to live in a world I don’t like.

    I just don’t know what to