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(i feel really stupid asking, but what the hell!) could i be of french descent?
  • The movements of people since time immemorial does not adhere to the arbitrary political lines we've drawn between nations today. Both France and England have seen large scale immigration by the Romans, various old Germanic people, then the Vikings. All these people have killed and fucked each other. Attributing DNA to an area is partially a statistical likelihood, so there's a margin for error. Except in geographically and/or historically isolated areas, we're all more blended than anything else. That makes the race theory of the late 19th century seem so utterly ludicrous today but we can't quite completely get it out of our heads either.

  • Pedestrians Walking on Right or Left?
  • Because they are a rebellious bunch. But it doesn't matter because in one belief the whole country seems united. And that is to ignore all the pleas of train operators to stand on both sides of the escalators to prevent long lines and crowding on the platforms. We're having none of that sensible crap.

  • Pedestrians Walking on Right or Left?
  • There is a tendency to walk on the left in Japan as well. I wouldn't call it a rule but a vibe. For a society that is rigidly built on rules and conventions, they are remarkably flexible when it comes to tolerating people who swim against the stream. Not wanting to cause a fuss overrides a New Yorker outburst of the "Hey, I'm walking here!" variety. IMO they also insist less on the right of way or other car traffic rules when behind the wheel.

  • If darker coloured materials get hotter in the sun faster, will a display with the screen on or off change how quickly it heats up?
  • I'm no expert. Stop reading here if that's not good enough.

    My understanding is that in cathode ray screens, the old-style non-flat types, heat would make a difference. In LCD and LED screens, so little heat is produced by showing images, it is probably negligible. One of them, I forgot which type, does black by just turning the light off in that spot. So the type of screen used probably matters here.

    You can see massive ad screens even in hot places. Now, there may be insulation in use and/or A/C. My guess would be if they can operate a huge ass screen in 100F 40C weather to get me to buy shit, the combined energy costs cannot be exorbitant. And my guess is further that's mostly to prevent the hardware from melting in the sun, whether the screen is on or off.

  • If my county passes a new tax for um lets say a new jail. They staff it and build it and everything with the tax money. How come it seems the tax is there forever? Why not get rid of it when built?
  • Taxes are unpopular necessary tools in the governmental toolbox. They are often marketed to the people as temporary necessities. And then the weeds of time grow over these intentions, people forget, and they're here to stay.

    Germans still pay a sparkling wine tax. It was introduced to be able to increase military funding before WW1. They have since gone from a monarchy to a republic to a murderous dictatorship to an occupied territory to two republics side by side (at least in name, the east got rid of the tax) to a unified republic. Guess what survived for more than a century?

  • Is it normal for people to ask where you are from online?
  • This sounds like a weird person at best or the prelude to a scam, stalking, or social engineering at worst. You stick with your standards and don't doxx yourself to passive aggressive douchebags, however insistent they may be.

  • Hey Sorry, but please stop telling me my Canadian English spellings are incorrect. Thanks, eh.
  • The absence of the English varieties of (tongue in cheek warning) hockey, shrimp on the barbie, middle earth, etc. on desktop under "User Interface Language" seems like a glaring oversight. I see them listed under "Accept Languages" but I guess that has no sway over spell checking? In a word: weird.

    I hope they fix this in an update. And I also hope the orange menace pipes down on his territorial expansion bs. In any direction really but north in particular.

  • Is it possible to listen to artists who are terrible people without feeling guilty?
  • YMMV. There is no universal answer to this question. None of us separate the artist entirely from the work and thus our enjoyment of it. I think of it in video game terms. Every artist has a power bar. They can get hit a couple of times and can still be tolerated when they're in the yellow. But once we're in the red zone and the character starts getting translucent or is flashing I'm out. This is all very subjective though.

    Marylin Manson went red for me and I scrubbed the songs I liked from my playlists. Michael Jackson also. But I continue to listen to The Smiths/Morrissey in spite of Morrissey's politics. I still enjoy Pink Floyd although Walters and Gilmore are profoundly unlikable characters and Walter's politics rub me the wrong way a lot of the time.

    In the age of streaming, there isn't a lot of money going to the artist. You're not really supporting them financially if you enjoy their music in spite of any a-holery, moral or criminal, they may have committed. If you get something out of it, continue to do so. If it feels yucky then I'm gonna guess one more hit is putting the character in the red. And if you paid for the music/album, the "damage" is already done.

    I'm glad I was never a big fan of Kanye's œuvre so I don't have to wrestle with this question about him. I think he would have done enough to drain his power bar thrice over and thus it's game over for me. I wish he had more well meaning people around him who could help him to protect himself from himself.

  • Hey Sorry, but please stop telling me my Canadian English spellings are incorrect. Thanks, eh.
  • I see an option for Canadian English on Android so I figured there would be on desktop as well. I'm not in front of my desktop right now so I couldn't double check.

  • I wonder if antivax kids are OK getting a cootie shot?
  • As a general vibe in life, I try not to punch down. Antivax kids through no fault of their own are at a disadvantage in life (and make life for immunocompromised folks harder). Wondering if they'd be okay with a cootie shot as a question seems snarky and punching down to me.

    You could not answer this question categorically anyway. It would depend on the age, how much autonomy they already have over their body, and to how much RFK junioring they've been subjected. So the answer is care and individual attention for each kid, not a generalization.

    I don't know where you get the idea I suggested we hunt them down from. But I think you've correctly picked up on my critical opinion on this question.

  • I wonder if antivax kids are OK getting a cootie shot?
  • These kids have a bad enough lot in life by being born to and probably being negatively influenced by irresponsible parents. They probably deserve more care and individual attention than a throwaway question like this.

  • Mapped projections have been a thing for a while now, but why aren't people mounting projectors and dancing carefully choreographed moves to match a projection on their bodies?
  • Were you dancing at the time?

    I imagine it's not as easy in terms of producing the template video to match your body type (and maybe agility) and then to set up the projection just at the right distance. Conventional wisdom might also say that you learn dance moves better by copying others and that's why you get floor to ceiling mirrors in dance studios.

  • Reddit to Lemmy. Twitter/X to BlueSky. What would be Facebook's replacement?
  • Bluesky is merely a stepping stone between Xwitter and Mastodon. Facebook can just die with them boomers.

  • What are some good coping strategies for moving on and dealing with constant abuse?
  • Any other answer than professional therapy runs the risk of making it worse. But I know that it can be a luxury.

    Out of sight hopefully leads to out of mind eventually. Actively avoiding these a-holes is one thing, having a good emergency plan when it can't be avoided is another. I don't know your life so you have to figure this one out yourself. In my experience, people that have a certain power over you in your mind immediately lose a lot of it if you imagine them naked, tickling the tip of their nose with a feather.

    Are you reacting rationally when you're confronted with them? If you can control yourself enough to imagine the nose tickling, start there and see how it goes. If you can't get there and therapy is out of the question look for a fresh start somewhere else. Different part of the city, different city, different time zone. We are conditioned to think we mustn't run from our problems, which isn't bad advice but isn't universally true IMO. There are cases where you're allowed to just move away in the night, secretly flipping the old life off in the process. If after careful consideration going through all the pros and cons you arrive at this conclusion, don't deny yourself this option for dogmatic reasons.

    A therapist, after disagreeing with me, would probably add that you should make sure you don't repeat past mistakes by creating new dependent relationships that could lead to new abuse. So keep that thought in the back of your head.

  • So excited that Avril Lavigne did come back
  • Why did she have to go and make things so ... complicated?

    Thank you, I'll be here all week.

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  • Thank you for your eloquence.

  • People Are Losing Loved Ones to AI-Fueled Spiritual Fantasies
  • My LLM says you're an enlightened one! May the builders of the universe bless your path.

  • People Are Losing Loved Ones to AI-Fueled Spiritual Fantasies
  • This sounds to me (fixed typo) like the same percentage of people are susceptible to cult crap. It's just the availability of gurus is broader because you can have your own personal bs whisperer in your pocket. Kind of like how social media helped isolated village idiots to network and exchange views on DC pizza places. We wouldn't see them as a problem if the ability to scale hadn't become suddenly available.

    Ironically, I think ChatGPT can help reverse some some of these troubled souls' convictions. It just needs to gently and repeatedly tell them they're not Jesus or a disciple of the builders of the universe.

    My LLM always says I'm beautiful and always right. So no downvotes on this comment.

  • Idea for a flag

    I don't have the foggiest idea where I could've gotten the idea from.

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