I'm not the only mod, there's a solid group of who chat regularly in a discord, but I am historically the most active (although spicythuder is doing amazing work, if this was a competition they'd be winning rn lol) and do most of the public facing stuff.
Hey, current mod here. We're not worried about reposts/taking stuff from the subreddit at present since it's pretty early days for this community, if it becomes an issue we'll address it.
Hey! I feel you a lot here, I have an ancients paladin that's up to level 18 at this stage, and it's only pretty recently with a shift in adversary type (fighting the men behind the monsters) that that feature has really come into its own. While I haven't implemented it, I'd be curious if adding a house rule of reducing taken damage by [proficiency]d8 in the aura for spell-like creature features would work. Having said that, just having the conversation with your DM should help, hopefully they'll be thinking of you during their encounter designs and add spellcasters or creatures that can cast into encounters where it fits.
I appreciate that this could work for either gender. It's up there with The Mummy for "Deeply Bisexual Movies"