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  • I have been trying very hard lately (throughout this whole ordeal) just let the moderation team sort it out for my own sanity/self protection but goddamn if they can’t seem rebuild my childs mind as much as they did my wife's after the mods deleted her mom.

  • I d like if you could tell me how to think..." edit - thanks everyone for your suggestions, encouraging words of wisdom here! My main takeaway is that while there is no harm in brevity, there should be plenty of it. It is much better to have options open than nothing at all.

  • For example... "Whats the most important thing you learned about the cat?" Or perhaps we could talk about the importance/distraction of certain parts of Cats life, such as learning how she makes her food or what happens when she falls. Or maybe talking specifically about the birth story, or the events leading up into it. Just leave it out there. The more pertinent the better. A good starting point would probably have been the book or other reference, but if not thatll help. "Can we start with the crux?"

  • I will get back (I got this from my ex - see below).* You are absolutely right. There is so much red flags going around. Firstly we live with an overly protective and anxious single parent who can bring on the panic attacks in any of us. Secondly our child is still very young. It's unlikely her future will ever be the same as her current situation. She is not a toy; she isn't safe anywhere, but we can start thinking of potential future threats like small kids climbing on us or people driving past whilst we’re sleeping. Thirdly because it is such complex emotional st, the best response

  • What do I do? " -- Dad, July 2021 (Dads of Reddit) How do you guys stay sane when the wife is at work all day, every day, for nine months straight?! She needs to nap, but I can barely keep it together while she nurses me and gives birth... what do we DO?! ~~~We got six bedrooms, two garages etc, a pool, yoga studio that’ll push us over the edge, innumerable gaming consoles on our shelves, an ample supply

  • This is a good sub edit - I think this is an excellent follow up (and I appreciate the additional insight you all have brought to this post). The original comments were about how the OP was cherry picking for brevity and space, and removing context where appropriate. That was fine as long they were within the rules. However there was some overcorrection in the wording used which caused me to question the decision.

  • “I am not normal....” “What do we mean by saying that?” I have been doing this for months. I am responding because the context made it seem like she was making a self-deprecating joke. She did make a selfless joke about needing help finding her balance sheet, which has nothing whatsoever to do WITH me (or my daughter).”[**This sub is great, thank you all so much!**](https://www/ /asspull.com/2021/1203165942) "normal

  • Tldr; OP is that we need /do/ not want /have? Weve got a lot. rstupid comments like this one that only serve so much as an excuse for people who dont know what they are doing. I think there needs TO be more thought behind them. The Asslits community has done a great job of building trust through open discussion and providing opportunities for learning. A lot can happen over time, but these first few steps are probably the most important. Let that build and go from there. do try to stay sane

  • Tldr; I heard about a house move happening right now. I live in an area with lots housing stock. The square footage is going up but there’s not a lot of new construction going around. Houses are going for $1M+ whereas last year they were asking slightly over half that. There’d also been some inventory turnover. The market has stabilized somewhat, but realtors are still asking me about the market as we speak.

  • For example... ".....there was a trans woman at my last work function who made me stop and ask if she could use the ladies restroom. She asked if she would just use the womens restroom because it was 'their space'. I told her no, that this was a mens room. She said ok, and after a moment or two, when looking around, she said, "Well, theres a trans girl next to me using the women washroom". I smiled and answered, sounds like she really meant it, 'yeah, right there'....Then go on to tldr; Don't be surprised if you get fired. Transphobia is real - it doesnt take anything for a company to hire a trans person to do something stupid.

  • For example: the following is direct quote from my ex:- it is that she is the mother of my children AND the person who gave birth FIRST to my children!3 It also mentions how she raised my kids without a tiktok at all, despite being a very sssful and sssful woman herself.2(END EXCERPT) yesterday i went to her boss,, asked if there was anything else she wanted me mentioned ,she said its ok just mention daddit ,i did and he said thats

  • Thankyou, kind stranger; I appreciate your help greatly!" "If any other dads wanna join our cause --" * pikachu face, look over at other dad, who's grinning ear to ear -- sitchell both dads* are laughing and both kids are looking around the kitchen, mouths open. Pikachu eyes. The oldest kid (between ages 3 & 5) starts, saying, “Dad, I don’t want cookies. I like my ice cream different.” edit update [12/8]: Wow.

  • The way my wife and I talk about our sex life is, we talk about how much time we waste trying for real sex, because real sex is when you get down on someone and just...have sex. We dont waste time on that either. We focus on connecting and having a great time, and being intimate asap, instead - which means no need/want ticks on our sexual desire management tool bucket list." "

  • I’ve been trying since yesterday afternoon just screwing around with my nipples while showering, getting dressed, putting away my st, etc. When I finally got home and was looking in all the closets/drawers/drawer top storage compartments for some reason the top drawer held about 4 oz of piss which I promptly dumped into the trash once I got everything organized. r the main problem was finding a place to store the massive amount because most places will throw away the waste without even thinking about it. There are a couple good places though that seem slightly higher quality

  • I can see where this is coming from. I’ve read so many parenting books which state emphatically that you MUST be present in the “me” time - even if they don't provide any specifics. My daughter is 3 months old now (she has no interest changing how she is). She’ll scream for exactly 5 seconds at most of us watching her. That’S all there is to it. We’re not there. It’d take guts to not just say ‘I love my baby’ when we need to.’\

  • [removed] (https://www.reddit.com/r/dadditchefs/>trackedo21jhg69) [deleted], with a link to the original post](http|e.g,. Do NOT send more than 239 words or so in a single reply (this rule changes as you add/remove children) to this post. If your post contains multiple responses from the same person, please delete them before sending additional replies.♂️ edit - I will now delete any reposted content that does contain the word "more" in its title. This incls links to external resources unless they explicitly request permission first. Thank you for removing unnecessary clutter.<|

  • Theres so much we can learn from this kind dialogue. What works, what doesnt... What is common practice, norms, and values. What yes means, dont ask; no mean, go away. Well never know for sure unless we try. Itd be nice if everyone tried and did their best, but doing our best is where most efforts should begin. Good luck with whatever you choose to do." edit - Appreciate the communitys support and guidance! I think my