To be honest, yes. In general, not just tech or Linux related stuff. You look at humanity and what it has come down to, and then you notice these people... and hope fills your heart again.
Some really good advice here and people really tried, wow, just really surprised that not all people on Lemmy are tech geeks... cuz, I have to say that I do have a hard time interpreting situations and emotions and knowing that I can write about my problems and have a bunch of people really get into the issue and give really good advice, that really really means a lot 😊.
This was kind of an eye opener for me as well. I've had a hard time of letting go of some of my exes, and I always wondered why. What you said coupled with the fact that I sometimes have a habbit of idealizing a relationship and fanatsizing about what it would look like 3, 5, 10 years from now, is at the root of the problem, but I never framed it like that.
Thank you for the words of wisdom 👍. I am past those relationships, but I never figured out why it took me so long to get over them.
The same way you can spot people lacking confidence, there's tells, and she doesn't seem to have any here, either she's getting hers or she's content with what she's got going on in that department. Because realistically that's what it's all about, not like you would get a lot of aesexual incels, right?
From what I could tell, she's not asexual. If nothing else, overweight women usually have a higher sex drive and better orgasms (something to do with the fat and chemistry... I've read about it, but can't remember where). The same is not true for men.
So, one, she's either a REALLY good actor (not gonna bet on this to be honest), two, she's getting her part (an arm can do much more than a penis can... not judging on kinks or preferences), or three, she's asexual (not gonna bet on this either... especially by the way she's dressed).
So, your point was, she's probably getting it. I can agree with that based on what I saw. Is she getting it from who she wants? Not likely. Does she care? All she seems to care about is reddit and upvotes (judging by the firey nature of her reply and the length of it). Does that make her an incel? Technically no. Realistically, yes. If she does actually get it as much as she wants, but not by the person (persons) she wants to get it from, that's mostly a male perspective (which can be true for overweight women). Imagne if there was an overweigt man sitting in her place and saying the same things she is saying and with the same ammount of confidence. Would you believe him? Over 90% of people would disregard it as a lie. Yet, she gets the benefit of the doubt. Why? Cuz she's confident 💪.
But hey dude, enjoy that superiority complex you got going, I'm sure you can do so much better while hate posting two chicks clowning incels.
Wrong. The one trashing on incels is most likely and incel herself, but in another form and shape. If the question was "what is a porker", I can bet you any amount you want, she was gonna go down in tears.
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To be honest, yes. In general, not just tech or Linux related stuff. You look at humanity and what it has come down to, and then you notice these people... and hope fills your heart again.