Pick your player...
You left out the most important one:
A. She's Batgirl.
B. Crazy sex is the best sex.
How about this pair from ‘The Escape Artist’?
T'lyn.
As an aside, I find it interesting that when Tendi grabbed her hand (a very intimate gesture to Vulcans), she had a slight reaction, but didn't say anything or attempt to stop her.
It's... green.
It's not easy being green.