what is everyone's sexuality here?

I am the only straight person on the Fediverse, AMA.

I'm like a Kinsey 1.5. Just bi enough to be uncomfortable with the "straight" label but too hetero to feel comfortable claiming "bi." It's great 🙃

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Straight cis guy here. Doing my best to live as an ally in the ways that I can. Happy to be here with all of you!

Straight ally. Happy pride month!

I like to have sex with people I'm attracted to. Sometimes other people, too.

I'm pan/bi/omni. I think people are hot.

Transbian here!

I'm part of the Anxious Bisexual Nerd Team!

Can't we make a poll instead?

Ace! I think people are hot, but I don't want to do the nasty with any of them.

yes

$20 is $20

/s

I'm ace. It took me a long-ass time to figure that out, as often happens. I thought I was bi for a while because 0 = 0 lol.

Edit: also not aro, and nonbinary (agender, mostly), since people are specifying this as well.

I'm gay. Nothing special lol

Omnisexual, tho I usually call myself "Bi" when talking to others about it, as few people know about omnisexuality

I don't have a clue

Bi cis woman, but I ended up marrying my hs sweetheart so only really been in het relationships. No regrets, he's my favorite human!

Another bi guy here :)

Straight male though I'd like to think I'm pansexual. I honestly don't see why anyone could not be compatible with someone just because of biological gender in an ideal world. People are pretty awesome.

I'm hetero-romantic asexual

Just another gay fella joining the fediverse.

Asexual, with no other qualifiers i.e. not demi or aego etc. I figured this all out when I was like 11 and, after over a decade, still hasn't changed

Actually not sure ay. I've been intimate with a big variety of people, but I still feel odd trying to label it. I definately lean closer to straight than anything else, but i dunno

Bi guy. Though I've never been with a guy, only women.

How u doin'? Oo

im pan

Just boring old gay guy here. A dude who likes dudes.

Pan as hell no matter what my imposter syndrome tells me!

I'm abrosexual. That means my sexuality changes over time, a bit like being genderfluid.

My flag:

I’m a gay dude. \o/

Straight trans woman, my boyfriend is super loving <3

Bi.

I'm bi-ace <3

Optionally pronounced like an Italian word.

Bisexual.

Bi. The bi-cycle fucks with me a lot though.

Lesbian here :3

Super duper pansexual.

Lesbian

Nunya.

Ace and nonaro (don't really label it any further personally)

Hello fellow bi person

Normally straight-ish, but currently I would say indifferent due to the meds I'm on.

Although I can see the uses in making up terms to define who you're attracted to, I dont like the idea of putting yourself in a box. Ive had straight friends get really confused when they find themselves attracted to the same sex, and gay friends get really confused when they find themselves attracted to the opposite sex. When you "join" a sexuality you dont sign a contract or anything. A while ago I figured out I was bisexual. It was pretty great for a while, cause I was able to figure myself out and feel more free because of it. I didnt feel guilty for having certain thoughts. However, eventually I started to have some problems with the label itself. In this day and age, what even is a man or a woman? Ive found myself being attracted to people that dont identify as either gender. And isnt gender supposed to be a societal construct? In that case, why do we care so much about it in the case of define sexual identities? Im no philosopher or social scientist, so I may just be talking out of my own ass here so forgive my ignorance. Nowadays whenever some asks me my sexuality (which by the way is a very weird thing to ask people you just met in real life) I always say "on a case by case basis".

Bi, but only been in het relationships. Dudes I know just are all assholes.

I'm a Lesbian myself

Gay trans man here!

A gay dude ✨

Panromantic ace, checking in. Welcome!

Basic gay guy here.

Transenby

Also a bi guy! Hi :)

Honest question: Why do you feel the need to categorize your sexuality? I myself am 40 years old and still don't know which category I fit in. What need/itch do you fill by naming this part of your persona?

Pan/Bi but strait passing... Mostly.

Complicated, but not.

Complicated because I have a strained relationship with sexuality after several years in a cult.

Not complicated because I'm married (17 years) and primarily identify as a lesbian. Probably "lesbian-attracted asexual" may be a better description?

Gender-wise, transfem demigirl (she/any).

Demi cis. I'm tempted to add "doomed", but I won't.

Polyamorous biromantic demisexual

to answer the age old question, "da fuck is that?"

I'm into being in relationships with multiple people of multiple genders and I've got to really get to know someone before any sexual attraction starts.

Most of the time when people ask I just answer with Bi as the people asking are usually not interested in the nitty gritty details.

bi :)

pan!

I think the concept of sexuality needs to go away, tbh. I'm not straight because I am attracted to EVERY guy. And I'm not a lesbian because I am attracted to every woman. So what am I saying when I say that I am straight or gay?

The info I am giving then is who I am NOT attracted to. If I say I'm straight, I'm just saying 'I'm not attracted to women'. I'm not saying 'I'm attracted to every man.'

So I think the concept of sexuality is pretty stupid and everyone should just like whoever they like. It creates a lot of confusion otherwise, with straight and gay people worrying about whether they're 'doing sexuality right'. It's nonsense. Bin it.

Demisexual

I don't know but I have been thinking I'm hetero :D

I'm trans btw