Meanwhile I'm here like "Oh no they've actually put in effort to remember things about me. Looks like it's time to pack up and move on!"
Good ol' avoidance trauma response.
When the store clerk remembers what you always buy, it's well past time to move!
Now I have to remember something about them. Shit.
me except 5% of the time I got the details just wrong enough to make them resent me
My brain is... idk, nerdy stupid? I'll forget a person's name after being told it repeated, but a tiny detail from a conversation sticks with me like a detail from a TV show or movie.
It's definitely nicer than just a name, but I am still embarrassed asking a person's name after a year, especially after remembering trivial details about their life, lol.
Meanwhile I'm here like "Oh no they've actually put in effort to remember things about me. Looks like it's time to pack up and move on!"
Good ol' avoidance trauma response.
When the store clerk remembers what you always buy, it's well past time to move!