I have 90+ very short videos (around two or three minutes each) that I'd like to share with some family and friends. Is there a good free place to host them?
I'm not in love with YouTube, and it only lets me upload a small number a day. Is there a good alternative?
People are probably downvoting because Pixelfed is meant to be a community platform, not a file host. Using it to dump large files onto without ever expecting to engage in the community is using up somebody else's resources selfishly, making Pixelfed a poor choice for your stated purposes.
Does this keep them private, and accessible by URL to friends and family who don't have accounts?
I assume if OP is sharing videos to friends and family they don't want them public, and of course they won't want all those friends and family to have to sign up for accounts just to be able to view them.
Maybe not quite on the spot, but a Storage Share (hosted nextcloud) from Hetzner might be an option.
Bonus features and info: You can also share other files, location, calendars, contacts etc. They have a compliant data protection agreement, and are fully GDPR compliant.
How does this work if the friends and family don't use that particular instant messenger, or have a smartphone (don't forget that many older people have simple phones or use them in simple ways, and a PC)?
Can they access the photos and videos with external links? If so, that sounds reasonable. Assuming OP is able to transfer the photos and videos to their phone for this too, I think telegram is just a phone application but I'm not entirely sure.
Unfortunately it's also a hotspot for right wing conspiracy theories and racism. I tried it for awhile and was completely baffled by what they allowed.
At one point they updated their terms of service to ban racism and it was the most disliked community post they'd ever made.
It's been like a year tho so maybe it's better now
I've never seen any of that. I would assume you'd have to go looking to find it. I just subscribe to comedy and tech channels. They're pretty much the same channels I subscribe to on YouTube. I just try to use alternatives to YouTube whenever I can.
Not quite the question, but depending on how exactly you want to share, you could just enable a web server on one of your devices, forward a port, and host it yourself until they have the files.