I totally get this. I could live in a desert and probably enjoy it mostly, even in the summer! The north is too cold and dark. A snowbird lifestyle might be for me!
Its fine to not like something, but it still comes with some positives. There's a certain peace and calm that comes with the darkness and cold. There's a certain comfort from being warm under the layers (clothes or quilts). Also try electric blankets (very cheap heating) and a hot drink if you choice (Jasmine green tea for me). Generally a time of year for less activity and more introspection ....... Or TV binge watching, whatever you prefer.
I had a pumpkin ale on the deck with my hubby, and we both needed to put on a sweatshirt! We've been getting great weather lately - actual proper fall weather, highs in the mid-seventies and lows in the low fifties (~23 and 10 centigrade respectively) with no humidity. Normally we'd still be in the eighties with tons of humidity!
Where are fireworks a traditional November activity?
UK it's Bonfire Night