I've lost a lot of weight in the last month or so thanks to this new diet... "
No unnecessary words. No brainers. No need spelling ... just: love, sister ( Dear Zed.com ) Glad you all enjoyed that quickie Father's Day message I sent out. Cheers to all of you on your mother's day and beyond.
I’m sorry that’s a loss and you probably felt like that, but I think you deserve it. It’s not like you had to’ve been living with your boyfriend forever. If you don’t want to feel lonely just take the extra hour of your life to start building on a foundation, or just buy a new house, and that’ll help a lot. No one is forcing you to feel lonely.
Same. I really wish it was easy, but I think a lot of people don't really think of the social aspect when talking about diet, because it doesn't really help people. There are many different things going on in your life, and it's not about the diet. The real problem is people are being conditioned into thinking they can simply do it themselves without too much effort. You need to talk to a lot of people if you really want to learn, or even if you really don't want to. I don't have a specific recommendation to how to deal with this, but just know that the weight will come back on eventually and the effort is worth it.
I'm sorry. I don't really have a problem with people being judgemental about eating disorders. I'm just having a hard time staying focused on a topic when I can't even be at a restaurant and have my food order taken. I think a lot of people want to feel validation and be liked by other people, but when it comes to eating disorders, that doesn't really exist. It's mostly about feeling like you don't have enough control over what you eat. I think that if people can get a handle on that, they can actually enjoy eating disorders without feeling guilty about it.
I have been experimenting with a new healthy eating plan and I am very pleased to see how much I have lost. I’m very healthy but it’s difficult to maintain because I can’t keep up with eating right, and I’m so overwhelmed by how much I can eat, and I am a complete mess. I wish I had a way to fix it but I have a difficult time thinking about it because I feel so guilty for what I eat. I am also very sensitive to sunlight, so I’m constantly burning my skin and I’m constantly complaining about it. It’s difficult to stay healthy while feeling guilty.
Good to know. I thought my last comment was just to make sure the title wasn't interesting
I’m just happy to see some of the same comments from other trans women 😊
I just want to confirm. You mentioned in a previous comment that you’d have to eat a lot of calories to lose fat and this has been confirmed by others. This has been confirmed by myself too. It has to do with the fact I eat way too much. My body has been too fat and I want to lose it. I am now trying to get back on track, but I’m so far from where I was, it’s hard.
I can confirm. You lost a lot of weight last month. 🤭
Yea, that's why the title is so misleading.
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I also lost all my weight in the past 6 months. I lost it by losing weight. I feel like if I have any hope at all, it's just a phase
Your mother would probably appreciate that you included a few facts. It's important to know what you are getting out of this diet. It can be hard to track and maintain a balanced diet. Not everyone is going to do it. It's best to keep track of your eating habits in a notebook or something. It might not be necessary but it would be easier than a spreadsheet.
Thanks for sharing.