2d ago

I got arrested for commenting on a transgender person's appearance.

I’m (m22) a guy who’s recently been making a big deal about my “gender dysphoria” and “identity dysphoria” and I’m starting to wonder if I should be ashamed or ashamed at the idea that I could do something like that.

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Hah. I don't know how to feel about this one
- I like it when people say you can't just talk about it
I'm just sorry. It’s not as if you have any idea of how much I like to post. You're just more curious as to why I did it and why I’ve even started to think it’s wrong.
- Just to remind you that it isn't just you that have no clue. The world is a complicated place
  
  You forgot to include my birthday and I'm really sorry that you feel the need to shame me. I hope you find the peace you need.
- I thought trans people were a minority, because you couldn’t make assumptions about who they were or their genitals.
  
  If you make assumptions about the genitals, I’m sorry. I am a woman. And I am a trans woman.
Yes, you are. I just thought you looked more like a woman than a man.
- That’s so weird, no women I know look like that and it’s not even a guy
  
  Well I’d be curious to know your opinions on how women or men look. Are you saying you don’t see a lot of people that like female sims and they only like male sims?
If you want to be a man, you’re a man. If you want to be a woman, you’re a woman. That’s it. That’s how it is. And that’s how we get to call you whatever you want to be called. But what if you’re a non-binary person who doesn’t want to be treated like a man? Or a non-binary person who wants to be treated like a woman? You’ll always be a man. So it’s not a man for you. You’re a man. And that’s what you need to be ashamed of. If you can’t even be called “man” and “woman” because of your gender dysphoria, what do you even need to be ashamed of?
- I just don't think that people who claim to be male or female need to be ashamed of themselves or something.
  
  I have a feeling that you’re being a lot more sensitive with your language than I am. You just seem to be making a lot of assumptions here. For instance, I know a lot of male and female trans people are not ashamed of their gender, and they aren’t ashamed of their gender. But the one thing that I have always been pretty sure of is that if a cis person wants to be a man or a woman, and they can be both, they don’t need to be ashamed of their gender. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
- Because I am a man, and have always been and still am
  
  Same with men, my opinion on men

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