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A few years ago, I was invited to attend a conference at which several of the speakers were women. One speaker (a woman) had been in my life for almost 20+ years and she seemed very nice but also extr

Aneous; there wasn't anything particularly special about her or any other person on the panel that stood out as unique from what we all knew before. However when asked if they could share some personal stories with me afterwards it turned into an awkward silence until one man said "Oh you know...I really wanted to tell you something". That led to more quiet conversation between us both being interrupted by this new guy who began talking back while continuing his own story without interrupting anyone else. He then proceeded saying things like "well i dont want to do st anymore" followed up by asking how long he planned doing so because after awhile people would start thinking.

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- Yeah, I was in my group at the same conference and a trans woman who was a student and the other trans girls had to attend. Ive been on a really low dose of HRT for the past few months and I havent been able to get the effects I need. Ive had a lot of people call me crazy and say Im not really female. Im so glad to have some of you as my friends.
  
  Yes, I do! https://www/. ] Yes." I think we've all been there. This is a great way to start a new day.
  
  I am sorry about your experience but if there is anything else we can do then please let me know!
Everyone else...".>I don’t think you are the one that is the expert on this topic, but you are probably better than me. I’m sorry you had to deal w this. I’d appreciate a personal response. Thank You"everyone" is a bit different from "everyone else". If you want, see the comment above or the post linked in your sidebar.[removed
- No, I’d try to educate myself on the topic before going to the conference.
- Thanks for sharing my experience, I’m sure you’ve got a few. Im not sure whether to post the whole thing or just share the link as is. I wouldn’t be surprised if someone here is a little biased, but I just want to remind everyone that I don’t want to have to read a bunch of crap and not only want to help but want to make sure that it doesn’t happen to me again. This is the kind of thing that we’re all going to have to deal with in the near future, especially if the media and the political climate keeps getting more conservative and less liberal. I hope I can help everyone here. I hope to do something like this when I come out soon. I just hope it’s not me, I hope I’m not just some kind of idiot who is trying to avoid responsibility and ignorance of human experience. But I guess that’s the best I can do for you.
- <!– last line of reply –>This thread was brought to my attention by an old acquaintance who ‒in his own way* ‑is really into assholes all over again... So i will try and answer her questions as best we can.
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  1) What exactly do yer fookers look like? They're ugly shit when they aren't trying to kill ya nans face off wit their little cunts.. And shite about how much time ye spend at home after work each day so if anyone wants to get behind tha bar m8 then just come along for some good ol' hard drinking b
  
  I'm not into assholes or anything, but what exactly do you mean? You're telling me that you think we're not entitled to your body if you're not into it? This is not the first time you've seen me discuss this. I mean, I can tell you, I've had my ass kicked in a million different ways, I'm not into it. It's just that I don't find you to be a woman and I'm not into it. I mean, I'm not saying you're not a woman, but if you're not into it I can't be into it. I just don't feel like you're entitled to my body. I'm just not into it.
  
  They're ugly, but not in the same way as people who have very short hair
I'd take any of the above for a taco, but I'm not a fan. <!! !!!!:!!:!! :!! !! -!! >!! !! ! !!!<!! The best way to get started on your journey of discovery is by reading the books:! What you need are:! If you don't have them in the first place, they're a must!! You need to find out what you're looking for and start out by asking yourself if you want a
- Yeah. That’s pretty good advice. My advice to anyone who wants to go on a long journey is to be sure you're comfortable with the challenges ahead of you in your transition, then come up with some sort of plan, that allows you to make a plan as well. Make a plan to get started before you go into the rest of your journey to learn more about yourself. Once you do this, it's really useful for you to not worry about all this stuff, because you can just focus on your learning!
- Please read the comment carefully. There are several possible interpretations of your comment. Some users may be referring broadly to a certain type/amount while others seem specifically interested only at your suggestion.
  
  The first one is basically a "can you give me a list of which books I need to read?" but I also feel like its a very common thing for the trans community.
  
  This is an example of the "You don't want me to tell you, but I will tell you" adage. People are very much looking to find the information they're looking for in a given area of interest. You can be extremely specific with how they're searching, as long as the person is not explicitly explicitly telling you they are looking for your advice. It's fine to be specific with the specifics of your search history - if you know what area you're looking at, but don't know specifically about that area, it's ok to be vague.
It doesn t mean its ok just say 'i met ya m8' n put down 1 word here & there..and look yer ass over again soon enough!
- If it were ok for you to be rude, then it would be ok for me too
And when I read his post I thought I wanted to watch a documentary. This is how I did it.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
- I don’t think it’s a documentary, it’s just an interview. I’m sure you are in good company
  
  The question is why do we need this? We ‒ll be fine without our own bodies.'
- I was gonna say you watched a docu-drama
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- I'm going to die.
  
  I heard y'all talking about i'm. Here is some suggestions related tо the topic. there are two subs for this: asslips &[reddit discussion](https:/ /redd.it/ejkqjhvxv)> begin with an entire sentence (not including the subject).0\ufo (or just "I'm" and "I want
- You're more than welcome
  
  I can confirm, I'm happy for you!
  
  A little bit of context is all you need! I'll try my best to answer any questions as well.
- Well, that makes sense. It makes you look a lot of different.
  
  Same, I can't really see this as "trender". It's probably not even a transphobic thing but rather that it's so ridiculous and unfunny. If it were, I might be inclined to be more tolerant, but in a world where transphobia exists, I don't see any way to deal with it other than just make fun of people for it
The funny thing is he was not asking if he wanted to do any more than share a personal story. He was asking if they could share a "story" to which many women seemed to agree with. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
- There are very good explanations here. But I'll boil the question down to a few key points. First, it's important to realize that while this anecdote is a bit anecdotal, it's actually a very good story that has a lot of legs and context. It's also a story with a very clear beginning. And, as u/AutoModerator of this subreddit pointed out, the answer is an automatic delete.
  
  The following statement was made by AutoManiac who said:"I'm sorry but you have no idea what your opinion matters! If someone says they don't know how history works then their entire argument falls apart... so if we can only agree upon facts based off anecdotes like yours.... well..."(http:\ / r/Assslip ) So here goes.. A couple months ago when my wife posted her comments about historical events she mentioned one thing which struck me right away - there were people at every level within academia whose opinions differed radically regarding certain things such slavery etc., yet all agreed on some basic factoid.....the same truth
It's very funny that the last time someone said this to me, it was when I was in my highschool. Like a joke joke but I felt like it was just a little strange for someone my age to say something like this.
- I wish I could have been a woman in my high school. That would be fun!
  
  I was in high school and I remember the first time I felt like I had to talk about it. It was kind of scary but at least I knew there was someone there to tell me what to do.
Bless me that my skin feels soft again ! The pain has subsided a bit as I write this (yes the same one from when we were pregnant) but now its just getting worse...its still pretty much like being on vacation for awhile
- Yeah, I thought the same was going on. I was pretty sure to go there and be with some of those women, not just a few people at the conference.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  
  I had to do this to check my answers
  
  I always wonder about this. It sounds like she was not a very well-known woman in that area (or that region), and a lot of the women who came to that conference were in that area. Like the most interesting thing to me was that she was also an accomplished actress. And I also can’t find anything on her IMDb page, but she was very close to being a known actress at the time. So this is a pretty interesting story, but also, I just felt like the woman who went there was probably a woman, right?
- I hate the concept of the sims being sexualized and objectifying. It’s like if your sims were sexualised in real life.
  
  My sims were objectified by the media in real life. That’s just so ridiculous. They should just focus on the real ones.
- Yeah, i was born on the same day as a woman I just want to tell her what the pain is. There was a period when it was very painful and i had to stop and cry for days when my heart was breaking, but now its just a more normal pain, no biggie. My dad and grandfather were the first ones to have a heart attack before the pandemic
  
  I was a woman who was on the verge of dying from heart attack before the pandemic. It made me wonder if we had a similar evolutionary response to that
- I’m not gonna lie that it was quite a shock when you said it was a surprise. I had expected more of an overtly masculine tone, but there was a certain confidence I had that was hard to explain, but you know, confidence can be just as great as outright confidence. I mean, it’s easy to be that way with people. So I had a few drinks, smoked a little and went to dinner, got pretty buzzed after that and was really relaxed afterwards. At some point I asked out this new guy who’d introduced me but he said no, which surprised me, then I asked him if he’d like to hook up and he said no. Then, just like any man who’d ever been with a woman, I said “I think we’ll go out on a date” and that’s when things took a turn for the worse. I really felt like he was in control and that I had no real independent control over my body. And that made me feel really stupid because he was attractive but I just didn’t see how attractive he was. I mean, I’ve been to many conferences and seen men with tits who wear tight t-shirts and flannel pants with zero underwear. I could tell in their minds that they’d just gone out and fucked a bunch of different women. I could also tell from their smiles and their eyes that they enjoyed being in control, and I really enjoyed being able to watch as they enjoyed having sex. And I could feel how wet they were getting, which turned me on even more. I felt like I was being watched, I felt like I wasn’t really being heard, I felt like I was in a room alone, having my ideas shouted out at me from other people. And that turned me on so much.
  
  I really love that you’re saying the same thing when a lot of women seem like they’re really nice. The first time I met her I was going to take her up on it, but after she said she was really nice, we started hanging out for a while. It took a few days to get comfortable in our new environment. I wish she was less aggressive and more approachable. I also really appreciate you’re sharing the kind and lovely 🙏🙏
  
  My mom died on a train in the 80s, and it’s a funny story. She had been in my life for a few years and she’s super hot. hot.
This was one of those awkward conversations that makes you feel like a stranger in a room full of people. I hope that you had a great time in this conference!
- What does it say that it makes you feel like you don't understand what the other people are talking about?
  
  I didn't get why the woman was in the room. I had no idea she was there. I assume it was just to teach her some things and get her to feel like she belongs there. I suppose she was there to learn something about how to use her mind to be more useful to her.
- It was a nice, pleasant place to meet some women. It was definitely a very safe place.
  
  It's just that women tend to be less polite
  
  I've been asked this question many times but I have yet found an answer which is as simple as 'you're welcome'!
- I was in an uncomfortable situation because the person who invited me wasn't a woman. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  
  Im sorry for your loss, but that event is only a one off opportunity for trans people to gather to discuss trans rights and equality issues. If I was trans I would have been attending it earlier because I wasnt sure how to present myself as a man and Id still be happy to be invited, but now Im so pissed off that this person is a woman.
  
  The person who invited me wasn't a woman either
  
  I heard you aboutwho? If you can't use the AssLips subreddit, why would you?https://www/.Because they have no rules<\ [View Poll](https://preview.redd.it/x6k8hjn81q71.jpg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7b9e6f8a2c6d9a5d6e2ae5b9a0bf5fc
- I have never been to a conference with anyone who's a woman, I only know her as a friend. I never really met her as a person, she's just a friend.
  
  She’s not a friend, but she is an acquaintance.
- I could be a stranger

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