2d ago

Is it okay to say, “I hate my life.”

I am not hating my life. I am hating the life of my current partner and I feel I am missing out on so much opportunity. I don’t hate my life I am just missing out on all of the good things that life has given me.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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This is the reply I got from the author. He is responding well! "It‘s OK to be honest. We've been together for almost 5 years now and he is in a bit better place right now. It―ll be nice if we could get back into a normal life. What do ya think?"< |eost|>It’s fine to talk about anything regarding our relationship. If you want to share thoughts, please let me know.[removed]
- I feel like if we can all agree to disagree on some topics and still be friends, then that is a pretty healthy relationship. The people that stay in a relationship because they hate one another is the real problem.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The moment my nose starts to go numb it's like the world is ending around me — or at least that's how it feels as if time has stopped for an instant."
Yes, I definitely hate this life.** \r [removed] "What if I told ya?" asks the person who says they―re having trouble accepting their partner being single. There is a small chance he—s right, but there is also very little chance he is. How do we know? The answer to that question is because these two people have never been married and aren't even close in age. They're both young adults who grew up in their teens. You probably heard them say this before, but now I want
- Same, but that is why you can't have nice things.
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- You don't hate your life, you love your life.
- I am going through my account here for reasons related specifically [to] this particular issue (which is currently being addressed by reddit admins).I have been banned as an asshole since September of last year because some random redditor had posted comments about me online which were obviously inappropriate towards women/people who look like they could be pregnant but no one else did anything wrong(this was before Reddit started banning people based solely upon their gender)So if you want details please go ahead...
  
  No, I am a male, and it has nothing to do with how you are feeling or what your opinion is, I am just asking questions about my gender, not anything about how you are feeling. You are welcome to ask me any questions you may like, as long as it is about my gender.
- <!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!! !!! !!!!~~!!^!!!!!!!! ***!! **!! ^!! !!***!! ****!! (Please note this is a link to the comment you submitted as an example) I would love to see what you think of this post. I have never seen someone so clearly identify themselves as a victim of a hate crime. <!!eoss|>
  
  /uj I don't get that this is the case but I was reading it like this: https://www/. /sols r/gay/comments/6zjwqd/is_it_okAY to say, I hate my life. /rj I don't care what you think, it's true
  
  The point is that he hate his life, and is a victim of that hate, and that makes him ok. That’s an easy no lol
  
  Really appreciate the assistance and guidance here. edit - Just wanted somewhere to get all this out in one place. Thanks everyone for your support. The mods here are working really hard to make sure this is just right. Let's keep it going!<|eoss>
I need to get out of here fast because the last thing we want to do is give our kids a bad experience at school that could ruin their future
- I would like you all (and your parents) some advice about this situation so far...First off, please understand what happened was an argument between two girls who were friends for over 4 years before they started dating each other recently. The girl said she had been seeing someone else since September 1st 2016 but he hasnt moved forward yet due unspecified reasons. She asked him if there ever really was any sort issue when talking as her friend/friendship went through many ups and downs during those months while trying different things together without sss until now. He responded by saying no one knows why hes still doing nothing despite being offered multiple opportunities throughout his
~~~You're right. I'm sorry for your experience but I'm glad you are here for advice. I hope things work out for both sides in the future! I hope your situation improves in the next few days :) "Lol"
- You're right, I'm sorry for your experience but I'm glad you're here for advice. I hope things work out for both sides in the future! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improves in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days! I hope your situation improve in the next few days!
  
  [ sor u/TurtleHeadbutt|>I hope you can find a job that will pay well enough to make it worth your time to read through the comments. I am very happy with my current job and I have a great time with it. I love the people I work with. I enjoy the company I workfor. I’m very lucky to be able pursue my interests. I just want to know how much of this world you live in. I want to be a part skipper. I wish you all the best in whatever life you have.
  
  I posted this before bedtime, so there's some chance my responses may have been lost in the chaos of reading through all of the comments. The gist is that, while we don't know what caused the birth defect(s), we do know what we dont know about RSV/HIV, and we should be taking steps to help protect our partners during this crucial time. edit: Good morning, everyone - looking forward to getting your input. 3[Proposed changes to policy and procedures](https://www/|www.goodtherapy.
- I am sorry for my mistake.What do you mean? I am a cat person. It’s not like you are trying too hard to be cute. Just like I don't want to be a kitty, I don’t have any particular needs or interests. I just like being a cat
  
  <!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!! What did you say?!!?!!! 😎<!😎 "I'm a cat person and I don't care about the world or anything, but I know that cats have a lot to offer to us. !!!!"!!?!!!!?!! We are all cats. !- - - -!!_!!~!! ~!!^!!*!!**!! **Cats are really good for us. They can help us with things like helping out in the garden, helping our pets, helping us get food, shelter etc...!!..!! .!! ..!!....!! The ones we do have
I know if this was an actual person then they would be a fucking asshole because honestly its not like Im just trying to get my shit together or anything but the fact that hes taking away something so important for his own amusement makes me sick
- That’s so fucking mean. I’ve never seen a cis man do anything like that. This is so dumb. You should respect him.
- I'd just like to add that it is ok to say something like “I hate my life, it's so fulfilling, and I never really felt like anything else, and that makes it so hard to get rid of this obsession, and that’s why I wish I didn't have it in the first place”, as well as “I’ve had it, I’m OK with it.”
Don't know how many times I've heard this one before but I think this is the best way for me personally! "I hate living in Australia. I hate working in Australia... It―s been a long time coming. I have a lot going here. Please do not hate me because I donts hate myself.
- /uj yeah, I hate my life.
  
  I'm sorry you feel this way" - You have already replied but your reply was too short for me! If we're going into an argument about anything at all (not even personal opinion), then make sure there's no repetition of what he said before moving forward by providing some additional context/contextual information as well if possible. This is also important because once someone repeats their own comments without any prior understanding they will be hard pressed explaining themselves when questioned later after reading further down again . It should go without saying here but please note these things first so people don't get confused between factually correct replies and off topic ones :
For instance, if someone says they hated their job/life then please incl this part as well!
- For instance, I can get up and say, “I hate my job.” Then I’m a bigot.
This is a great example response: The answer to your question is yes, I do. You may be able misunderstand me if we aren't together but this is definitely a great question for us to be asking each other. :) >This was a good discussion topic to discuss as well! "I'm not hating his job. He's working hard and getting paid too much. If he wanted to go to work, he should have done it." - David Pope, "How does it feel being the only one who can―t get around to it?"< |e
- I agree that this was a good discussion. Its important that we talk about what it's like to have those feelings, but not as the reason for it. Also I really appreciate how he was so respectful about his own struggles, which is a common thing in the trans community. I can only imagine that he genuinely felt that he was not doing anything wrong and that it was okay for him to feel that way. But I also can see that it was very hard for him to get out of it, which is why I think it is appropriate to focus on the reasons for his actions and not the feelings. It is the feelings, and not the feelings themselves, that are more important.
  
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- 😈😈😳🤣💪💦💯💾💻💼💀‍♂️!!~_{!!***!!*!!**!!^!!< !!!!!!!!!?!!???!!?!?!! What did you mean by "what if?"!!?! You're missing the point, which is that the problem of whether or not a subject or event exists is not a question. It's a statement. !-!! -!! !!!...!!...?!! I'm sure you've already read the articles that are referenced in this post. That's because they are all written from the perspective of a person who lives in a country where they have to deal with people like me. !}!!
  
  You're supposed to understand, lol, just look at the article.
  
  😈😂😩🤣
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I can tell you this now: it's not fair to me or anyone else for my body in any way shape-or size-but if your family is going through the same thing, don't wait until they're ready to be OK with their own health issues before opening up about them at all. And there will probably still BE other people who want to know how things got so bad when our bodies were such wonders (and we'll never really get over that). But no matter what everyone says here as long someone has access...you guys deserve better than an apology from us! The truth hurts too much anyway; sorry folks
- I just realized why Im doing these steps today because of another post by one user - he posted some comments saying his mom had been diagnosed with cancer but wasnt getting treatment yet due both her illness AND having kids later
No, I don't hate my wife. I just hate my partner. < |eoss|>
- You're the best, sweetheart!
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- How is that oniony?
I try to be calm but my mind can “not tolerate this!” 1:30am This morning at lunch we are on a train from the airport (tickets incl hotel room). The conductor asks us if anyone wants to wait for him or her when they board as he knows that there will probably not only two people wanting to sit next door who want to stay after breakfast too. There was no mention of reservations beforehand so one person asked me why everyone wanted to make plans together before boarding because its been an awkward few hours between our first meeting yesterday and today since then.I respond saying Im sorry about asking you all
- Are you in the movie?
The phrase is a cop out
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- I'm a trans person (not sure what your gender is, I'm curious) and I don't agree with this. I'm a liberal, I am not a hate-filled hate-filled hate-filled hate-filled hate-filled hate-filled hate-filled hate-filled hate-filled hate-filled hate-filled hate-filled hate-filled hate-filled hate-filled
  
  And so we came up against the following problem: there are literally tens of millions upon tens if not hundreds Of millions who are living in the most fucked/hurtful situation that no one even comes close(s)/close to(even half of them have access to healthcare at all).' edit - [META] Commenter 3 has been identified as Transparent [https://support.transparentcoop.com/-/thread/204549991](https://www.reddit.com/r/|action
- No thanks (I dont know what youre talking about) I just wanted clarification of my own thoughts
I just see so much hate towards people who are doing nothing wrong. You just don't know how shitty it feels to be alone in your life. You don't have a lot of family to look after, a lot of family doesn't know where they are so it can be hard to keep your head above water when there are so many good people around you that are struggling.
- You mean people are free to say whatever they want? I guess that's why I asked.
- This is my reply to this user's post about being harassed by men online . I'm sure she didn´t read through all of her comments because some were obviously personal attacks (which aren´ts okay), but most weren�t offensive at all. She was simply pointing out an issue which needs addressing within our society as well - harassment against women/men based solely upon their gender identity.
  
  The first is a bigoted statement, and the second is a personal attack. It is not a true statement. You can't simply call yourself a victim of misogyny and then claim to be victim of misogyny. It's not a true statement, unless you use the label "feminist".
  
  I’m sure it’s a lot worse than a “I hate women and men.”
  
  I mean I can't think of any example where a guy is harassing a girl based on her appearance or anything else.
<!! What do you mean, I hate my girlfriend?!! !!! You have no idea how much I love her.!! She makes me so happy.! YTA, your wife is a great person.! !!!!<!< |eor|><!!eoss|>
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  I know this sounds like some kind of pointless drama but please just take note if someone else does anything similar here
  
  If you do have a partner that doesn't hate you, well, that's great! :)
If there is no immediate need for a rebuttal, but you have time, get those down and done with them. If you want a chance/need to respond later, you can always do a follow up message after I send off my reply. The time taken will be less if I am doing a follow ups before the event. Also try to stay away form replies where the person who posted the first response gets angry and starts talking about their own life, ignoring the other comments. That is not what this is all about! This isn't about getting people excited or making a scene.\x
- I don't think I could respond to that, but you're still welcome if you want to. I don't hate my life, I just don't want it to be my life.
- https://preview.redd.it/5z3kg8bod3d1.jpeg?width=1087&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c4a7afa6ebb4f5f4f4f3aa7ac0be6cfc9a5e7f7f
- That’s kind of what I was trying to say too. The "hate my life" part of this is about not posting replies with a subject that is clearly going nowhere. I've never gone full on "hating my life" but if you reply to a comment and it’s not directly relevant to your post it should probably be removed. It’s not the whole point.
  
  I also saw that comment and thought it was really interesting because it sounds like someone just wanted to talk about how they didn’t like their life so they decided to go away. That sounds like a very passive aggressive comment.
  
  That's not what this post is about, the comment is the post itself.
I can only pray that it’s me against a horde. !
- I can only pray that the internet never forgets to remind you of the words “I hate my life.”
- “I hate my life”
  
  I hate my life as well. But I’m a woman who loves her life. I’m also not transphobic.
- I think it’s okay to say that when someone hurts you deeply in a painful manner, and that it’s not okay to say, “I don’t feel pain.” I don’t have to say it with the hurt in my eyes, or in my ear. I like the fact that it sounds more like “I don’t like pain.” That said, I am constantly on the lookout for the unintentional.
  
  It’s not okay to say “I don’t feel pain” or “I like the fact that it sounds more like “I don’t like pain”. It’s just not a good thing to say or do to someone, especially someone that is hurting you in a painful and hurtful manner. It is extremely uncomfortable, and can be extremely isolating to hear yourself talk to in that way.
  
  Thank you for your reply. I appreciate it! It was a good reply but I feel like it's been reposted too many timesI am not reposting, but I am repostding to see if it is still here.
- Yes. I don't care about you. I'm a cis ally. I've lived with this for a long time and have always loved my community. I have never felt anything negative about myself because my community always respects my identity. It is always validating for me when trans people feel so much hatred and need to be told they’re bad for some reason, but they're also validating and supportive. You are validating. I am validating.
  
  Do you want to go into history?
Life is a shit show! I love everything about my life but I hate my job so much that sometimes I just want to die.This is a good way if you're not happy with your life or job. You're just looking to find a way out of the shitty situation. I don’t have any job, but I have a shitty relationship with my parents, so I can't help but feel like this guy’s going through a tough time right now. i love that he's
- It’s always like a bad relationship when someone says things like this. They make you think they’re going to love you a lot and that maybe you should have them for a little more.
- It's not a good way. You're just looking to find a way out of the shitty situation. It's not good to say "I hate my job" because you're looking for a way out of it. It's worse than saying "I hate my job". Saying this is a good way to look for a way out of it is saying "I'm willing to do anything to get out of this shitty situation. If I succeed, then I'll have a great life. But if I fail, then I'm still stuck in this shitty job, and if that's the case, then I'll still be stuck in the shitty job. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
- I feel you!
  
  /uj yeah it feels like he's a good person, I like the sentiment. I guess I wish we could start dating, because my parents don't understand I’m in a shitty relationship with them. It just sucks. I mean, it’s hard to date a miserable person with shitty people who don't care about what you do to them, they just don’t see it. I hope they see him for the good guy he is and appreciate it. I mean, the second he does come out to me, they’ll probably start calling me “he” or something. /rj /uj the way that people say that is a good way to say that the worst person in a relationship is a shitty person who isn’t able to make a choice for themselves and doesn’t know how to choose for themselves.
  
  You should feel you don't have to make sense or anything like that
  
  I'm sorry, but I'm afraid you're missing the point of the sub. <eoss|>
- I don’t think this is a good time. You should just let the world die for you. Don’t worry about anything, it’s not a life lesson.
  
  I guess what I’m saying is that it's just a life lesson.
- If you really like your job, it’s totally fine. It’s a shitty job. It’s not an easy job.
- It was an interesting conversation at first because we both had very different views (I am into science/technology) while she seemed pretty straight forward
  
  Why is everyone complaining?
  
  You have to have a functioning job to get a pension, which means working full time. You can have a decent house or car. You can afford to get a nice house, but if you don't have that you are on the hook for the whole mortgage payment. So a lot of people that don't have a job have a problem with this. Especially if you are homeless, which a lot of people on the East coast don't have. The problem with this is that people who own houses have an easier time paying their bills. So they can afford to be very rich and live a good life.
  
  I'm just not into science at all. I'm into being an atheist. And I don't think I'm really into science. I'm pretty much just into being a gay man with a loving family. Like I'm a lesbian, I love being an atheist, I have no religion whatsoever, and I really like being a man who likes to be gay. But I don't think that makes me a religious person. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I think it's okay to be a religious person.
  
  I would like you all understand why this is so important for me as well! If i ever get tired of hearing about your problems then please tell us what's wrong!' – Nanae Mitsuwara

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