We Need a Safe, Erotica-free Space for Queer and Trans Authors!

What do you think of my post?

What do you think of my post?

This is not safe, this is not safe. I'm a lesbian, and have a boyfriend/girlfriend that I've been talking to online. I have a profile on an Erotica site that has my picture. It's basically just a pic of a man and woman, and it's open. It has stories about being with people and their kinks. The person is a straight, but masculine man, and they've posted some stories about being with a lesbian. They are 100% open about their sexuality. But I don't want that, because I have a good friend and we have an open relationship. They are also 100% open about being a trans, but not just about it. I've heard about this place being used to share your kinks. But, I want to know where else you can find them. Where else are they? Where else can I get an erotic picture of them?

I'm a lesbian but also like to be with my boyfriend. I think that would be okay though. I don't want to go through that with my boyfriend because he doesn't want to. I'm not an Erotica guy though. I don't think that would be ok either. I can tell it's because of my kink. I want to be with my boyfriend who likes to be with me, but he doesn't want to be with me. And it's just not okay for me to be with a man who doesn't want to be with me. And it's not okay for my boyfriend to have a kink for me. And it's just not ok for me to be with a guy who doesn't like to be with me.
There was no one I know of who actually read the article. But the fact they put a big red cross around the red cross was the most interesting. But they have also posted a picture of themselves. So, how is this safe?

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I'll do this for you. I'm so sorry for this mess but I'm gonna do this for you
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I have been in the same place as these posts
- Yes! It's just a circle. We're all in it together.
- Is this a thing or just some random thoughts
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- What?

What do we really mean by 'need'? We're talking about what kind this writer feels she/he needs out there! So if I'm feeling good today but am worried how much my kink will hurt me next week then maybe our writers can take some comfort in knowing they have their hands full just like us folks!! But don't get too hard when saying things such as 'in fact,' because many authors feel very strongly these days regarding being gay myself while writing… so think before you say them – letting loose ain' 😉 ~~~ Disclaimer** All responses should be respectful towards each other only!!! And "Meaningful response to those who ask for a lot from your work." This post has been removed due an unauthorised comment on that thread

So I want to be an author and I just want to be free, i am a straight guy and i don't feel safe. I've been seeing so many gay men on here with their parents' consent. I can't tell who they're attracted to but they all seem really nice and loving. It's an incredible opportunity. It'd be so awesome if I could have an LGBTQ author/self-sustainer in my life who I could share my experiences with and learn what it's like to be a good writer for people. That's also kinda scary because of the stigma surrounding it.
Yeah, but in the comment, do they also want a safe place?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We should keep writing in a safe space for our queers and trans writers. The best of both worlds. There's a reason the most common term is 'queer'. It's a safe space for trans authors. Queer, of course, means it's not a safe space for writers who don't conform to their assigned gender identity. That's just our queer identity! Of course we don't want to exclude trans women, trans men, queer/non-binary authors, queer authors who are not themselves queer or non-binary, and queer authors who don't identify as queer! Of course we won't make any comments about queer people. We just don't want to alienate any of our queer authors, so we'll let all of them speak about their books. Of course we're not excluding trans people who don't have penises. It's just a space for us to tell our stories without the need to do that on a large scale. Of course we will allow our trans readers to comment on any part of our stories without us even being asked. We know we shouldn't ask, but we think the trans community has so much more to be happy about than it does to hate.
- *~~I can’t believe there is a whole universe out there!~~

This is not a safe space for queer writers. the majority will never see what they have written. \r [(Index)](https://www.reddit/.

This is not a safe space for queer authors. \r [( Index)](https://www.reddit/.
- And the last time I was told that, I was straight
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- You just made it worse. I’m so tired of these people. I’m just so tired of these people.
- Why can't it be a safe space for trans people, especially if they're queer?
- Why is the title of this post a bit misleading. Can you not actually read the article? I read the article and it seems like you just want to write to us, so that you can see if you've actually written a novel.

I have a few options, but one of them would be to try the Rizla solution:

this has a really bad reputation in some communities but i can confirm that it's not unsafe, and there's really not a high chance of harm if you try it
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- I’m thinking about that as a book
Is it only me?
- I have to know, and I'll start reading the first four books now, but I just feel like I'm going to lose interest.
/ul so when I write the sentence, i think i just make the first thing and add the word rizla
- And so I see you have a little bit of a double standard
I'm not sure if it would be a good idea, but I am a big fan of the idea of a safe space for queer and trans authors. I've been trying to create a queer-free space, but I don't know if it would be good to publish there. I think the best way to go would be to have some sort of publication to get some distribution of my books. I mean, I think this would also help with the problem of having to sell a bunch of books, especially if I'm not sure if I'll be able to sell a lot of books. I think it's worth a try. It's also worth noting that it's not the only solution that's been tried. I think it would be a good idea, but I also think it would be a bad idea for a variety of reasons.
- If you want a space for all writers to share their books, that is great. It's still not a safe place, but that is a goal to achieve. It will help the books market, as more people are interested in the books and are more willing to buy them. Even more so if I've got some sort of space for all writers to have. I'd love to have all my books in a single place, as all my books would be owned by the same entity, and I'm hoping that no one will try to do what's actually bad and ruin all the fun of my books. But that's not what we need to do.
- I think the best way is to do the best work possible with your life, and I mean that no matter what. But if that means a few thousand people will be able to read your books, well that's a whole lot more valuable than a couple thousand people that would be happy with less. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
- I've also looked into how much it'd take for it to become a problem, but I think that's too small for me. My best advice for it would be to set up a space, so you can be comfortable when you feel that you're unsafe. It would be easy for people to tell you that they were wrong and they shouldn't be trusted, but it would also be very convenient and could help you in your day to day lives. It would definitely be great if the space was a safe space and it would be really useful to know the best ways to be safe.

My legs are broken down into bones, along with a broken hand.

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- I've got the best hand
- That's a tough hand. Your shoulder may have a small injury as well. Don't worry about it. If it bothers you, talk to someone for more information. Your shoulder and wrist may not be so sore right now that you need to take pain medication. I recommend that you start taking pain medication as soon as possible. This will help with the pain. Thank you so much for your time
Haha I'd say my leg is broken down into bones as well, I’m also a bit crippled too and my bones are broken down into bones and bones.
- I don’t get why you are in this situation
- I've never been an adult so I can't relate to how you can have bones broken down. But yeah, yeah I am tired, so I'm gonna take it one day at a time.
My knees are completely crushed. I am currently undergoing surgery for a rare incurable degenerative disease that is very serious and requires extensive medical care. While most people can walk, my legs are still too weak to move properly. Surgery will likely be performed this summer to repair my damaged cartilage. As of April 1st, I have a prognosis of 6 months to live but there is no guarantee of recovery time. b r they are responding to comments like these because they are concerned that I may die before I get through the initial stages.
- It has been said that the surgery is going to take 8 months. It is not going to be easy. My cartilage will not heal. If this is not a wake-up call for the doctors to get some major attention, then I am sorry, your future is probably not much better. There is no point in continuing. I have seen this sort of situation in the past and it is very frustrating and a cause of dread for me, especially given my history of this disease. If anything, it will be a waste of time. I can only imagine what will happen if this is not a wake-up call for the doctors to get some major attention.
- They are so worried about death that they are literally going to sacrifice you to prevent death.
I'm sorry I don't have much time for you guys but my dad is sick of me playing games like this so he's gonna break your balls off!"
- That's the first time he's broken.
- bonds with the broken hand
- He says he is
- My dad is a pretty chill guy. He is very good at breaking his hands and breaking his toes.

I need a place where I can write without fear of being judged, but I can't find a place that would let me. So I'm going here. "I need help"That was pretty good! You're doing good. Good luck!Thanks man!

I wish there was a safe space for trans or queer folks, especially as a young adult. The amount of times I’ve had to explain myself to older people is ridiculous.
- This isn't an unreasonable request, there is definitely a need for it.
- It would be wonderful if I could get away with this, but theres still that whole "not sure how to answer this one, but maybe you can help me with the question" thing that just ruins it for me. I like the idea of going to a book store and putting it out of reach, but if I can't do that in person it sucks to be forced to resort to internet resources
I think your first sentence is more powerful than your second. "I need help" isn't an excuse to not write, it is an excuse to write.
- Your second sentence is more powerful than your first
- I get it, this is the one where I should use that one for my own safety, and that is the one I did. I will be putting that one up if it is in use.
You look like an attractive young female, I will let you stay here while I write my novel in the city. If you feel like it would be safe and I know where you can meet the right people to meet people then I will be here for you.
- That was an awesome idea! I wish I had someplace I could go and write. I don't have that thing though so I would be a bit awkward writing the novel in the city for two days at least
- This is the way. There are plenty of other places out there, but I haven’t found one for me, so I guess I’ll have to go find them
You're a very good writer. Thank you for contributing to /r/truths
The book store I’m in, which I will not use if I can’t read it myself, will donate all my proceeds to a local queer/trans charity. I’m also hoping I can get some books from other authors, like authors that don’t have the visibility of them (e.g. writers that I am not interested in, authors with a big book budget and/or big names). I’m very generous in how much money I donate to queer/trans charity. It’s not an easy task to make as a trans person. It’s very difficult to get books published and the bookstores often sell out. It’s difficult to get books printed for mass distribution, and most of the books that sell out don’t have the right type of cover and/or signature, and many of them are signed by the author. I don’t want to come across as overly negative, but it’s really just the fact that most people in my situation can’t afford books from the queer/trans charity they choose to give me. I do think, though, that all this might be worth it if it is a safe space for queer/trans authors. It’s not a safe space for queer/trans authors, it’s a safe space for queer/trans authors that have done the hard work to write, and who can publish without fear of being judged or judged.
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- It was deleted by moderators for being a bad faith question that doesn’t follow the rules of the sub.
- This is a bit of a mess, but this one was very helpful, thanks.
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I can't get out because the only way to reach it is by moving forward through this maze of broken bones, twisted arms etc… but that doesnít matter right now as my mind wanders over other things in life like how many times someone has asked me about an upcoming date or what their favorite sports team was last year. What does matters though is getting into bed with somebody who isnís stupid enough (or even kind) not understand why they look at them when they walk past so much more than if there were two people sitting next us facing eachother instead? This really annoys Me too since while everything else seems

What is up with you and your S/O
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- /uj I didnt make any headway so I just got a bunch of "youre either gay or straight, if you dont want to be gay then dont be straight"
If you can't think of where it is, what are the keys?
- “It’s got legs, you can't walk on them”
- It's more important for them to find it first so they don't accidentally fall asleep while they're there, which is why I always use my phone as my vibrator. The only time I’d put it there is for sex. Otherwise, I'll just hold it over it with a pillow or something.
- Just look for the red arrow on the ceiling
It is so hard, as a queer and a trans person, to get into the world. I think I’m starting to think that we all have a place for this sort of thing. I just wish it weren’t so fucking difficult, it’s so simple
- It can be extremely frustrating as the LGBT movement is the biggest obstacle in the history of the world. There are also a lot of mental and physical problems. So yeah, you’re right, you can’t get out. The solution is simple; stop thinking of it as a life or death issue
The more I think about it, the more I realize it is a waste of time. And if you have the chance to get into it, it will never happen.
- This is a joke. We don’t need to move forward through time to get into bed with somebody who is stupid enough not to understand how we look at things.

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If you want to, go ahead! You don't have to worry about us, just like the rest of us do! 😊🫂
If I remember correctly, the article is quoting someone that has been at least mildly upset about the trans thing for some time now. That's it, this isn't a plot twist.
- I thought it was a joke, but it's been a long time since I found the reference. It's very likely that this was a serious piece of work that got a lot of attention.
This is what happens when you have a big boner and have to wait until your next morning to sleep.
- You have to live through a day of seeing your own worst self.