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my boyfriend said he hates girls and now I feel like she’s trying to break up with me.

I got a boyfriend a few months ago and she was my first ever real girlfriend. We started dating a month ago, and for the last 3 months we've been together. She loves me and says she loves me, and I love her. But I have no idea if I should be mad at her or if I should just say it. I don't know why I hate girls so much and it's a weird feeling. Like it’s like if I was mad at a friend or something I wouldn’t even get mad. Like I get mad at people, but it’s not like it would affect my relationship or my friendship.

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You don't need to be mad at a girl to be insecure about it. And in the long run, you will be happy for your new boyfriend. So you don't really have to be mad.
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I’ve been married for 4 years and the girls are good but I’m not married and the women are good too. I’ve had a few girls in my life, and I love it. I’m happy with the women in my life and am very happy. I love my man.
- I don't think that's a valid reason for not responding (at all). It is very likely your partner will start asking you about stuff as soon or right away when he/she finds out what type(s) these types were; so if there are any unanswered responses from them then we need help! If she continues making those kinds in her emails every week without explanation why please feel free ask around with other people who have experienced similar issues too :) Reply 2 : What did my husband do? [1] He told his mommy & daddy but nothing happened..he sent us another e mail which was ok only said something
  
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It’s so sad and sad it makes you wonder where you could find her.
*I think it‘s really good that I can be mad with her. I’m glad we were able make it work out. *The
- “It’s really great that I could get mad with someone.” You are now responding to a post in /r/ass
  
  This post in r/askhistorians is the same as this one. I don’t know how to respond. I don’t want to post a “I’m sorry for your loss” kind of response, so I’m going to post a different one
  
  I would never want to get mad at someone and just say it, thank you
The answer to this question is yes, as long As I cant think straight I'm not mad at my ex. If I am, then I will be mad too.<|eoss
- I think you need to start thinking differently.
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you can tell she‘s mad because shes trying too hard to make it seem like you were the only person who could understand her.
- I wish I could say that
- Yeah this guy is a genius. He's like a human of all people. But he's the one who broke up with her. That's how he breaks up with her
"[This] is what I usually say when I am angry, which can include things like 'em, “Hey guys, this is what happens when I get angry. When I get really mad, I will type out a lot longer replies because I want to read them all before responding.
- No it's not. When you are angry, you will type out your thoughts in an angry and bitter manner.
- That sounds like a great idea
“i don’te think i should be angry at her. i don”t know how to explain it. she‘ll always find
- I get upset when people tell me their ex is overrated
- !!! !!<!!< Don't even need to explain. <!!eoss|>
  
  This isn’t about me.
  
  Hear me out!
- ″Thank u for making me feel better, I appreciate it.” If you want to add anything else please do so in comments! \u200
“i am mad at my girlfriend and she wants out. i need to tell her what’d really hurt her. she‘ll be mad and try everything to get back
- My boyfriend does not hate girls, in fact he finds it hard to deny that she is trying to get him to admit it. He feels the need to tell her what hurts him is her attempt to get him to admit she is trying to break up with him.
- "Ok 👌👍 I'll cut ✂✂ this out. 🏼\u200d♀ Please 🙏🙏 please 🙇🙉 please 🚟🙊 please 🐶🕴 please 🎁🎅🆑 please 🕺🏿🔊 please ♂🙄 please 🔮 please 😣 please 💰😍 please 🛐📝 please 😥🥶 please 🤤 please 😬 please 👋💦 please 👏👌 please 🏾
  
  She said she was trying to cut the cord and was trying to get him to cut it, which he did. But he never said I was trying to cut her cord and was saying the same thing he said. I just want to know what it means."
[link] Comment: This kinda sounds good! You may want some help figuring out what exactly this means by 'like' after all?
“she’d like to talk to me about like.. things, and she wants us to talk about like... things?” That >She wants you to talk with me about things, but shes mad. She wants your thoughts on her. She says she wants to talk.
- She wants your thoughts on her, but she wants to talk. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
- I think she is overthinking everything, but I think she is overthinking it
- ‘What do ya think of that?’”. to answer: ‒I―m not sure if it�
  
  That makes more sense than it does.
  
  What?
- ‘I want to talk!’< >I like pizza too, and I’m a big cat lover.
  
  You have me!
This is a good idea! I think we should also set up an IRC channel where people are able see eachother's progress (like here).
- You shouldn't have an IRC channel? Why can't you just put this message in an email instead of an IMG?
“she’ll love us both more than you”, or whatever the hell she wants. **Please be kind and kind to your partner, as it‘s really hard for some people to be kind. If you’re a person who genuinely loves your partner and cares about them, you can be kind to yourself and help them out by being kind to you. You can’ve done this before, but I would suggest that you do it
- I know what you mean, but I'm really not really a girl at all. I'm a guy
  
  I'm not a dude, but I would suggest you start talking about how amazing your dick/ass are!<|sor u/_possessed_by_babygirl69_749_420_559_829_1026_1232_1239_1493_1518_1674_1790_1906_2031_2114_2112_2467_2501_2773_2877_2930_2938_2956_2964_2966_. > >I don't know why I
- If my boyfriend is so nice he’ll love me regardless of how I look or act. If he is not so nice he’d only love me when I am nice to him, but he’s not the kind of person who wants to be alone with me.
  
  "That was an interesting way for her husband ’and myself both‒to talk after all! Good job!"
  
  “I heard you about liking pizza. Here’tis a recommendation related for liking pizza, but I don’t think it’S the same thing as liking
- “she will always love me more than anyone else in the world.” "She is the best friend I have ever had. She is my best friend. She was my first girlfriend. She has always been my favorite. She loves me. She will never leave me alone again.
  
  That sounds like you were just made to love and be loved
  
  It's not hard to be kind to your partner. It's hard to be kind to yourself. It's just hard to be nice to someone. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If there were multiple things worth mentioning (like when they met), please mention them all as well!
- I love how the first image is the one that makes me think of “you are probably right”
For example: yesterday my best friend asked how I felt about girls…. the answer was simple, “Like! Like, I love them!” then go into detail about the girl being awesome, etc.\xa0\u200d♂ She then went deeper, asking about other girls I knew, and specifically mentioning Blake. Her exact words were as follows (paraphrased): "How
- What is this girl
- If I said that I liked Blake I would be in hell. I don't like people trying to break up with me, or trying to get me to like them, just because I don't like them"
*#Your #### Opinion # There is no “what” here.>What?<-|soocr u/-thomas_j_|>"What’ is going through your mind?" is asking. i’m saying that what you’re feeling isn’ t the actual thing happening. What you‘ve said could be true, false —
- I agree, what I said to someone when it came up is that I hate when people say "your mental health is terrible" or “you’re so stupid” like my mom once said that when it came to depression it was very simple
  
  "When I lived in town, we called it Depression St. 'til somebody brought it up in town and I had this horrible �
- It's the “what”
  
  *Pizza. The first part means the main topic of discussion. The second part is an off-the-cuff, off-

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