My sister is ADHD as fuck and can't get anywhere on time. i am also ADHD as fuck, but my anxiety about being late counters it and I mostly arrive on time, well actually 5 minute early everywhere
I'm late almost all the time too Dx however my anxiety has an iron grip on my finances so I will probably never have to deal with overspending and financial ruin.
The problem is that my anxiety has convinced me that homelessness and bankruptcy is right around the corner at all times so I can't even enjoy the fact that I'm financially stable.
I feel like I never "under-think" things. I'm "only" diagnosed with ADHD but I'm pretty sure there's some autism in the mix which makes me overthink everything. And at the end my ADHD makes me overwhelmed with all the stuff I have planned/validated and I can't go through what I wanted to do and nothing gets done. Hours of thinking something through wasted... x(
this combo fucks me up constantly