Violet Evergarden isn't sad enough. It highlights how sad things can and do happen, but it gets there by highlighting how happy they needed to be for that to even be troubling in the first place.
Given Violet's own arc through the entire thing, the show overall ends up as a celebration of things that are worth fighting for, and a discomfiting reminder that nobody is guaranteed anything. Much like Violet herself, the story fights to the very end and never gives up.
If it makes anyone want to kill themselves though, they really missed the core of the show. It can also make you want to fight.
eh, plastic memories is to sad anime what Michael Bay is to explosions.
too on the nose, in your face, and not very clever with it. they beat you over the head with "look at how sad this is" the whole time and it loses its impact.
Too different to compare. These are all tearjerkers for sure, but in sort of a happysad way, like "so sad that we lost it but so happy that we had it." There is something good and warm that you can identify with, and the hurt comes from it being taken away too soon.
Happy Sugar Life is obvious from the outset that there will be nothing good or warm, there is no hope or anything worth saving. The viewer knows this, but the characters don't. That's what makes it so painful (in a good way) to watch unfold.