You don't need to have an interest in spirituality to awaken but a sufficient amount of surrender is required. If you try to surrender, you can't. If your mind is telling you to do something because it believes it'll get it some state it thinks it needs, tell the mind to ignore itself and watch it chase it's tail.

You don't need to heal every trauma but IF the people that BRING VALUE (whatever that means to you) to your life keep saying there's a problem, maybe it would be in your best interest to listen and see if you can't address it. You better listen in deep to find out what you value. What really gives access to that feeling of not wanting anything? Or does your mind always need a problem to solve? What if you just watch the mind chase it's tail?

Catch and release.