Can be

I've just started doing the circle finger thing Charlie does in the Dennis Reynolds looks like a sex offender episode.

It's probably considered rude but it works

I wish people had this
No way! (I go for the full 2 rather than mere 1.5 that the cursor is paused on here:-P)
- Depends on the presenter. Some I have to go as low as 1.25 and others (thankfully rarely) 2 is not enough.
- Let me tell you about Freetube, where it let's you have a custom max limit of playback speed. I find myself sticking to 5x for the past couple of weeks.
Fuck. Yeah.

Oh I still have this, I'm just better at powering through now. My siblings had no issues. Shout to be heard type of household, and I cant shout very well.

Didnt help that my mother has a meandering way of talking and thinking:

e.g. "tetris, I want you to do something for me, remember that curtain rail that I got from Argos before it closed down, we went there with Henry's mum, the one who hurt her shoulder playing tennis, and now Henry's going to join the army, hopefully not helping the IDF, which by the way did you see the news...."

I now stop her at the first tangent, and kindly state to her "mum, finish your sentence" where she then realises that she's holding me hostage and then gets to the point

Ah, this is my wife. She almost certainly has ADHD herself and hates being interrupted. I've been coaching her to begin with a thesis sentence before giving all the context, and it's soooo helpful when she remembers.
- what's a thesis sentence?

My personal hell is wanting to read these super long replies on post in this community, to better understand my adhd, but I can't bring myself to finish reading them. Something else always snags my attention.

The ADHD tendency to hyperfocus and write super detailed descriptions.

vs.

The ADHD tendency to say: Nope! Too long, not reading that!
- I'm 100% on the second one, I have even warned a friend many times "you've been typing for far too long, I'm not gonna read it"
  
  When I'm typing I loose the same amount of time trying to be concise though.

Eight times worse for me is waiting for others to take their turn at a board game. Recently played Wyrmspan (Wingspan but with dragons). Nobody was even thinking about what they were doing next until their turn and somebody's spouse wanted to leave and kept asking if we were almost done. We only got to play 3 out of the 4 rounds.

This infuriated me when we last played Settlers of Catan with my friends

The worst is when people clearly don't know how to order the information being presented.

I mean, I don’t know how to order the information being presented like maybe 50% of the time…😬
- Yeah, but I've had problems where I ask a question to get to the point and get hold "hold on, I'll get there". It is frustrating to have people waste my time when they don't give me context when I ask for it because they internally rehearsed the wrong way to present something.

Yes… yes it is.

then by the time they do i've used up my quota of social interaction for the day

It's torture for everyone involved. I had a speech impediment growing up, and getting interrupted became my biggest "immediately lose my cool" button.

So naturally my wife and kid have ADHD. Go figure lmao. We're all working on it.

I've actually learned to recognize when people expect me to finish a sentence for them and then just wait for them to finish it themselves.

Them: "Hi, I'm looking for a Stephen King book, and I was wondering if you could..."

Me: "..."

Them: "..." [meaningful look]

Me: "..." [blank questioning stare]

Them: "...help me find it?"

Me: "Oh, of course! It's right this way."

It's a fun little game to play with conversational expectations.

For real, for real.